I have a good friend who i speak mostly when im online on msn messenger, he lives in another city but we are proper friends since we met through my friend a while ago, we talk online everyday...
He has my phone number but that was only because my internet will cut off soon, we text each other once in a while if we havent managed to speak online for about a day...
But now my internet isnt cutting off, and he is hinting that he wants to call me, he says things like "how come you dont call me?", or "you must sound like a boy".
Yesterday he was going on about how he wants me to text him everyday, but i replied "whats the point, we talk online everyday anyway"
I wouldnt mind talking to him on the phone, but for some reason it seems like its going over the "friendship" threshold; i mean, msn is one thing, texting and calling is another.....am i right in thinking this way? Or is this still just a strong friendship?
2006-09-23 10:15:06 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds to me like he is testing the ground before he makes a move.
The question is that you have not said if this is your preference, would you like a relationship?
It would appear yo could be both skirting around each other and it may be time for both of yo to lay your cards on the table.
If both of you are looking to develope your friendship there will be no problem. If not diplomacy of the highest order is required to remain friends.
2006-09-23 10:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 01:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, he's definitely wanting more attention from you. Either he is lonely or he thinks he's on to a good thing. Just take it as far as you want to and do your best not to give him the wrong impression. If he can't handle the level of friendship you want then he'll just have to deal with it himself. He may well destroy the friendship rather than not take it further, some people are like that.
Texting and phoning costs money, especially mobile calls, and every day is just too much for a normal friendship. E-mails every day isn't so bad, they're free, msn if you've nothing better to do with your time, but realistically it's far better to meet with friends in person (other friends you have who live nearby) than sit around on msn day and night.
2006-09-23 10:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it has crossed the friendship threshold because if he wants to call you everyday or text everyday that is crossed. My guy friends barely call me ever.
2006-09-23 10:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by omb1993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you're right in feeling this way on the other hand i think for him the friendship has gone beyond just texting & chatting on the net & wants more. Just tread cautiously maybe ask him what he's thinking of
all the best!
2006-09-24 04:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by KOOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him on msn using a microphone headset. That way he gets to hear your voice (and vice versa) without eating into the rest of your day. You have more control.
2006-09-23 10:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tertia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, let's put it this way...there are a bunch a girls out there with guy friends and they hang out together, go places, talk on the phone,send text messages etc etc...It doesnt mean its something is more than friendship...so I think unless he tells you he feels more than a platonic feeling, he's just being more friendly.LOL..He probably just likes your company, not alarming.
2006-09-23 10:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by jj'sB-tfrz01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he whats to get to know u better. sounds to me he might want to be more than friends. if u feel the same call him if not still call him and tell him u don't feel the same and u want to be friends.
2006-09-23 10:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by rockgirl_6788 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him next time when ur on msn?? unless u dont know what u want!! but if u want to know, just ask!!
2006-09-23 10:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how calling him woudl make it "more than friends"... I call my best firend everyday (a guy) ad nothing more has been has came up from it.
2006-09-23 10:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋