i cry everyday is that bad for my unborn child and will it effect him when he is born?
2006-09-23 09:48:34 · 14 answers · asked by LaBrittany J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am really having a hard time with this because i love him so much and i dont know what to do.. i really need some people to talk to so e-mail please missredbone971@yahoo.com
2006-09-23 10:24:54 · update #1
it may...but not that we know of scientifically...You cant help if you feel sad..he was rotten to leave you now with you being pregnant and all..All will be well ..I will say a prayer for you!
2006-09-23 09:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children grow up emotionally healthy all the time because the people who raise them are loving and nurturing.
You didn't state whether the dad is planning on being a part of the child's life or not.
If he isn't then better he jump off the face of the earth now rather than after the child develops a establishment with him.
If he is, then find yourself a lawyer who can help you set up a parenting plan between you and your ex.
Being a single parent is not the end of the world for you or your child. Many people have thrived from the parenting given by a sole parent.
Good luck and kiss that baby for me when it comes!
2006-09-23 16:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The unborn child's father will want to see his son. Don't cry anymore. If he has abandoned you then he is not a manly man. I hope you have a family support system. My daughter
Ashley is 19 and she is pregnant by a loutish sort of fellow. Love is all I have to give. Sing to your unborn child, tell the unborn of your love. Trust me on this. Progeny.
2006-09-23 16:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by ^ _ ^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just deal with it. I would think of it like this. It's probably better for both you and your child in the long run for you have split with your child's father. Why? Because it's better then putting your child through knowing his dad was always there and then having his dad leave. AND--because it's better then having a child grow up with two parents who argue all the time. I know it's rough but you'll get through it. Think of all the great things in your life that have yet to come--the birth of your child. How exciting! Congratulations and hang in there!
Contact me if you need someone to talk to!
2006-09-23 16:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book Messages from the Masters. It's written by a Psychiatrist who was educated in Yale and Colombia. In his regression of his patients, he is able to bring them back to the point where they are in their mother's wombs. He notes that the babies are able to understand, as you and I are understanding, what's going on in the world out there. So according to his book and his case studies, unborn children can, to some extent, be effected by how you're feeling.
Read the book. It's neat.
Side note: Keep your chin up. This state that you're in is only temporary. Things will get better. You'll become stronger and life will treat you well.
Much love.
A
2006-09-23 16:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Alex B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the father of your child leave you? Is that what you are saying? Are you wanting to know the effect that your emotional state will have on your unborn child since your husband or BF left you?
2006-09-23 16:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Shalamar Rue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress during a pregnancy is not good for the baby. Believe it or not the baby feels your stress. It's called transfer of emotion. The baby can feel and hear everything that you can. Be happy because this is a new life that you are bringing into the world and that is something that only us women can do. He may have helped you make this baby but everything else is up to you.
2006-09-23 16:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you over stress yourself it can be bad for you and happy. The other person was right time does heal. I'm 19 and 21 weeks pregnant and me and my guy are no longer together. I use to be jelous and think I could never live without him. He is a good person and I still care about him, but I'm much happier being freind and putting my baby first!
2006-09-23 17:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just concentrate on having a healthy baby. Just because you and your baby's father aren't together doesn't mean that he doesn't have to support him either. It will take some stress off of you by taking him to court when the baby is born and getting an order for child support.
2006-09-23 16:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me too, You need to surround yourself with good friends and family to keep your spirits up and work on having the baby first..And I always thought that because I had a baby it would be harder to find someone to be with, but it isn't...Time heals all wounds and you will look back later on in life and understand why things happen the way they do......Good Luck!
2006-09-23 17:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by nosey girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Submit a petition to the Court.
2006-09-23 16:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋