i don't want to hurt my friends feelings, but then again i don't want to make my boyfriend jealous. and i don't know what to do. i don't know how to not hurt my friends feelings either.
2006-09-23 09:46:46 · 12 answers · asked by argentina_mandy20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should respect your spouse cuz how would you feel if he talked to females. Maybe he's never put you in that possition to see how it would feel but just think about it honestly how would you feel the other way around. would you be ok with him having alot of female friends? I think you should respect his wishes especially since your in a relationship with him.
2006-09-23 09:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Been there done that. My advice? Get rid of the boyfriend NOW! Jealousy is not good. I had to put up with it for many years to the point where I was not allowed to have any friends of my own and my ex accused me with sleeping with each and everyone of his friends in addition to eventually trying to control my every move. Jealousy is not healthy. One of my best friends is a guy, my boyfriend knows that and is cool with that and he has a few close female friends which I am cool with. Don't cut your friends out male or female because your boyfriend has issues. I lost a lot of friends and some I will never get back.
2006-09-23 17:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys and girls tend to be jealous when their partners are talking to anyone but them. My advice is to continue your friendship and just be sure not to cross that line that would cause false suspiciousness of your relationship. You don't want to look like a giddy school girl when you are with your friend and you boyfriend is around. As long as you know what the boundaries are, you don't have anything to worry or be sorry about.
2006-09-23 16:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew K 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that happened to me a lot before. but i talked to my boyfriend and told him that they're just friends of mine. I made sure that i told him that he's the one i love. and i pointed out that if he were to be jealous of every guy friend i talked to, then that would be like telling me to throw away friendships i've formed through the years.
2006-09-23 20:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by jordankulit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend's got issues. Tell him to get counseling or else dump him. Unless of course you enjoy this drama. In which case, you may need some counseling yourself.
2006-09-23 16:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by elk312 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True fact friends last longer than BF's. Tell you BF that he is a friend, try hanging out with both of them at the same time so he becomes his friend as well.
2006-09-23 16:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by terri_jason_242 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are being controlled by your boyfriend. It is his insecurities, that are the problem and it is his problem not yours. You do not have to have any ones permission to live your life, My advice cut him loose and find one who is a bit more mature
2006-09-23 16:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is mad because his afraid that he might lose you to one of your friends. but if he doesn't want you to talk to them let him hang out with you all. sometimes it would work and other times it doesn't. just take it step by step
2006-09-23 16:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well you need to tell your boyfriend that you only have eyes for him, and that he should trust you. and with your friend just be honest and tell him if he is a good friend he'll understand.
2006-09-23 16:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by marlen 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Introduce them to each other, let your boyfriend understand, ttat there is nothing between you two.
2006-09-23 16:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by lucy s 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋