boyz i need help please answer me cuz i need it?

Question

i am sorry for the grossness but i have never had an orgasim n i need answer i dont think i have ever got onee i want to feel how it feels i need the relief n i want that pleasure all the gurls always say they love it n moan n it feels so good n i want that feeling i need answer please be serious give details of how i can do it myself i need lots of opinions

ty u guys so much

Answer 1

Since you apparently are not old enough to know how to spell correctly, I suggest refraining from any type of sex... whether alone or with anyone else... especially the latter... we need moms to be educated before having children and you may not be able to read the directions on your contraception.

Answer 2

Orgaxm from the Greek orgasmos, to swell with wetness is one of those wonderful mysteries that we all know about but can't fully explain. for all our technology, we know amazingly little about ourselves. We surmise that orgasmic capacity, on an emotional and psychological evel, requires a healthy ability to let go occasionally, to allow emotion and feeling to eclipse thought, to permit the id of a kind of holiday, a moment of transcendence over the ego.

On a physical level, the climax of lovemaking is stimulated by a combination of touch, movement, breath, and the gradual build up of a hormone called oxytocin, which is thought to trigger the rapid firing of genital nerves resulting in a sudden, overwhelming flood of feeling ans sensation. Levels of this "pleasure hormone" are five times higher than normal in men during orgasm. Women require even more oxytocin to reach climax, and their oxytocin levels exceed those of men during arousal.

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Answer 3

i can answer with things that i heard. first of all as you said u want to feel orgasm by mastur*bating right. ok.

firstly i want to define What is an orgasm? An orgasm is an emotional and physical experience that occurs during a “sexual response cycle”. Before an orgasm, your body becomes increasingly excited. Breathing, heart rate and blood pressure increases. The pupils of the eyes dilate; the lips of the mouth darken, the nipples become erect, the clitoris swells, becomes hard and exposed. With increased excitement, the skin becomes flushed and it begins to sweat.

In women, the labia, clitoris, vagina and pelvic organs enlarge in very much the same way as the aroused penis enlarges. Sometimes there is a plateau of excitement which is held for several minutes before you are about to orgasm.

Orgasm is the point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions that may be felt in the vagina and/or uterus (some women do experience orgasms without contractions).

The orgasm happens when excitement seems to go over the edge -- a climax or crescendo is reached which may last several seconds or longer. During orgasm the body stiffens and the muscles contract. Involuntary muscle contractions and spasms may occur in various parts of the body, including your legs, stomach, arms, and back. The muscles of the vagina relax and contract rapidly, as do the muscles of the uterus. The glands of the vagina (Bartholin's glands) discharge a watery secretion, which acts to lubricate the vagina.

if it is first you feel it, u can feel regretted after orgasm. u will ask urself "why i did it".

lets come to the point. how will u do it on ur own?
Remember, there is no wrong or right way to masturbate, everyone is different and we all respond differently.

First, Relax as much as you can. Ensure your privacy; lock your door, turn off the phone, make sure you are alone. Find a comfortable position. Most women start out lying on their backs, legs bent and spread apart, with feet on the bed or floor. Remove some or all of your clothing; whatever feels right for you.

Explore your body. Run your hands along all parts of your body, lingering along areas that are more responsive to touch than others. Many women have very sensitive nipples and can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. Look at your genitals in a mirror if that is “your thing” -- if you feel shy about that -- that’s okay too. Caress the different parts to see what feels extra good to you. You'll know it when you find it. Touch your inner and outer labia, your clitoris, your vagina and your perineum

Touch. Using one or two fingers, rhythmically stroke the different parts of your vulva, paying particular attention to your clitoris and labia. Use your fingers to pull your vulva apart and gently open your vagina. Experiment with different types of pressure, speed and motion. Try placing a finger on either side of the clitoris and stroking up and down, or placing two fingers on the clitoral hood and rubbing in a circular motion. Place a finger in your vagina and experiment from there.

Experiment. Try different types of touch: stroke, knead, pinch, or lightly pull your genitals and nipples. Try using one or several fingers, or the palm of your hand. You'll find out what you prefer.

Fantasize. Recall an exciting previous sexual encounter or focus on that guy you have a crush on. If you need some extra help, look at a sexy magazine, think about your dream-date or read an erotic story. Allow your mind to wander.

Build up. Learn to hold onto sexual excitement by building up and then reducing or temporarily stopping the stimulation. Pay attention to how your body is responding. It will tell you the particular stroke that feels best and when to pick up or slow down the tempo

Breathing. Breathing is important to excitement. Breathe deeply rather than hold your breath. This helps release the sexual energy, rather than fight it. Rock your pelvis as you would during intercourse

Going over the edge. If your hand gets tired, give yourself a rest, switch hands, or try a vibrator. If you're on the brink of orgasm, but can't quite get there, try altering your breathing, or focusing on a really hot fantasy. Give yourself extra stimulation: caress your nipples, or try also thrusting your other fingers or a dildo in and out of your vagina. (But, don't overdo it either).

Ride the wave and enjoy. As you begin to orgasm, continue the stimulation lightly through the orgasm, or stop if it feels like it's too intense. Lighten up on the stimulation during the first extremely sensitive moments but keep it going to enjoy those little pleasurable aftershocks. Your first orgasm may feel like a blip or a blast, but the more you practice, the more variety you will experience.

Don't worry. If you don't orgasm on your first try. Keep practicing, or try some of the variations below. Practice the breathing technique making sure you are breathing from your belly, but don't pass out.

Practice, practice, practice. With a bit of time you will orgasm! If you are get sore, give yourself some time to heal.

Helpful hints

--Rub against something. A body pillow, a small pillow, the corner of some furniture, a dildo.

--Dildos can be a pleasurable accompaniment to clitoral masturbation, as they offer the fullness of penetration and can also stimulate the G-Spot.

Answer 4

r u serious??? don't ask boyz for that unless ur trying to be a slut! trying asking the girls what it is the guys do to them that makes them so crazy!! because a lot of times, more often than not, you're going to have to tell the boys what it takes to get you there...if you wanna know from a personal prospective what will get you there...try masturbation.

Answer 5

Okay this is simple. Mastrubate. aka rub and touch yourself.

Answer 6

rub and touch your self untill you have an orgasam