I know this sounds mad but i always feel like i need attention and I hate being alone. What is the best way to get attention? I've tried everything but i'm constantly feeling ignored. What can i do besides suicide that will get me attention and I'll be alive to see it?
Please don't try and be funny, i need a really good idea
2006-09-23 09:38:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Okay, first change your whole lifestyle. Looks, hair, clothes and attitude. The more you chase the faster they run. Try being a little bit less desperate. Talk to good looking people and get them on your side. Start your own trend by going vintage. Check out sports like volleyball or soccer. Also enter a Christian club, people love do - gooders. Be sincere with friends and don't be fake. None likes posers. Suicide is for losers! Don't be an idiot, only the real attention lies inside and ready to come out and make a stand.
2006-09-23 09:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by stickinthemud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Ummmm, yeah you could get a dog, or you could make friends. If you are an interesting person than there is always something to talk about, so stay well rounded. For the times that you are going to be spending at home, if "Fido" isn't enough join a few Yahoo! groups. You know the ones that have at least 20 messages posted every hour! If you join a big enough group you are bound to add a few more people to your messenger.
Try this and if that doesn't work. SEEK HELP!
If you are feeling ignored now, suicide won't do anything, even if you get attention for it how will you know?
2006-09-23 16:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by UNapologetic! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the process of getting attention in the long term, can lead to, the people around you, who may find you overbearing and ignore you in an atempt to show you they don't have the energy to give you the attention you crave at that time. The only way i can see, you are going to solve you dilemer is to ask your self why you hate being along, and find a way to deal with your answer. You sound like i used to be a few years ago and i found a way to like and even love myself now, for who i am,worts an all, because i wanted to. If you can do that you could be happy. Buddhisum helped me if your interested.
2006-09-23 17:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by grant l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO CHURCH join A volunteer groups help the needed find something in your area that other people are not really doing and it's important and do for a worthy cause help the elderly in your area they really appreciate it and will always give you attention always try and come up with good Ideas that other people around you are not thinking off and you'll be surprise to see how people will react next thing you'll be getting more attention than you can handle
2006-09-23 16:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you aware that even your avatar looks depressed? The natural response to this kind of question is to be funny, but since you asked do nicely, I'll refrain. The problem here doesn't seem to be that you aren't getting attention. The sheer number of responses to your question combats that theory. The real problem is that you feel you need it. I'm not a great person to solve this problem for you, as I'm often times in the same boat, but at least with two people in the boat, we might be able to make it back to shore. You did bring the oars, didn't you?
2006-09-23 16:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by mctfelton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. First of all, you must not be getting the proper attention from your family? Parents? You need to talk to your family or parents about this and what's more, I believe this is at a level that requires help from someone who is trained in this area.
It sounds to me that there are more needs that need to be addressed than just attention. Find a psychologist and stick with it! They will be able to get to the root of the problem. Wish you well!
2006-09-23 19:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a bad complex there. I'd say you feel irrelevent but don't know why. I can't see how always seeking attention will win you many friends though so it's no wonder you feel a bit isolated. You need to stop it basically and people will communicate with you much better and want to give you more of their time and you will feel more included.
2006-09-23 16:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try becoming a sports person and train very hard if you want to be in the limelight.In sport anyone can get attention for good or bad reasons. So select the type of sport you think you are good at and embark on rigorous training.
2006-09-23 16:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should be more social with different people like make jokes or clown on the teachers at school to your classmates behind the teachers back, if your a bad seed type of person, pull pranks on someone ultra sensitive or somethin. If your out of school then do something to piss your boss off at work infront of your coworkers, WARNING: results may vary!!!!
2006-09-23 16:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw from your last question that you've been hurting yourself to get your parents to pay attention to you. Don't do that. I'm sure your need for attention is legitimate, but it's not worth hurting yourself for. Instead of actually hurting yourself, just bandage your wrists as if you'd cut them, and then go to school with them all bandaged up. That should get you plenty of attention without having to actually hurt your body.
2006-09-23 16:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by EmilyRose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋