I'm in trouble and I don't know how to get myself out....I have a lot of guy friends.. I have a few friends that I really like and they really like me. we all know that we could never be an item. I have been spending a lot of time with one of them and now the others are jealous of him and they are a little pissed at me because they think that I am spending too much time with him and not enough with them.
This guy that I have be spending a lot of time with I think is getting the idea that we are becoming more then friends..as I do tell him that I love him (I tell my friends that I love them as I do..when I say love I mean that I really care for them and about them..not like I'm in love with them.) all of my friends know this.
I know that I need to tell him that nothing will ever happen and he needs to get the idea out of his head. but the thing is that I don't want to hurt him nor upset him.
Do you have any advice for me ?
2006-09-23 09:07:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well if he is your true friend he will understand . good luck girl. :]
2006-09-23 09:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bree Lynne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u wanna just be friends with this dude the 1 u singled out ?????? or he singled u out ????? then u should tell him point blank WE WILL NEVER HAVE SEX .............OR..... MAYB IN A YEAR IF WE GROW CLOSER MAYB WILL BE MORE THAN JUST FRIENDS BUT ............. U NEED TO KNOW THAT I HAVE A LOTA GUY FRIENDS AND THAT UR NO MORE SPECIAL THAN ANY OF THEM .... I LUV ALL MY GUY FRIENDS????????????????? PERSONALLY I HATE CHICKS THAT HAVE ALOTTA GUY FRIENDS ... MAKES MY SKIN CRAWL .......NO OFFENSE............ BUT GUYS DONT LIKE WHEN GIRLS THEY LIKE ARE HANGING OUT WITH OTHER DUDES NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION .. ...............IF U 2 ARE JUST FRIENDS AND UR NOT A C@CK TEASE THAN I DONT SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH U BANGIN I MEAN CHILLEN WIT AS MANY GUYS AS U WANT ............I SUSPECT THAT DUDE LIKES U THO AND WANTS U ALLLLLLLLLTOOO HIMMSELF
2006-09-23 09:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him as soon as you can - before his feelings become stronger!
Good Luck Mei Mei!
Aloha!!
2006-09-23 09:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear
nothing better than frankness
and as you told him earliers as you hurt him less.
he should appreciate your attitude and how much you are polite and clear
with respect
2006-09-23 09:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by dr_rabiefahoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get more female friends.
2006-09-23 09:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by steve w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋