I'm pretty good ....I average about 13 points a game, but all the guys on the team dont take me seriously....they are more interested in seeing my boobs than anything, some of them are just perverts... they ask me to make out with them on the game bus...i hate it...please help me.....what should i do?
2006-09-23 08:58:19 · 31 answers · asked by soccer chicka 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first of all... kuddos for being on the team! That's awesome!
Being to the odd one out is never an easy option.. but is something great when it's something you really want to do.
If football is something you really like... hang in there. They are just looking for someone to make fun of, and you are an easy target. Find a few in the crowd that are more respectful and hang out with them. If they ever touch you in a way that makes you uncomfortable... speak up to your coach and later even principal. That should not be tolerated.
Good luck!
2006-09-23 09:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm on the football team at my school 2. most of the guys on my team are my friends, so they're not really interested in me like that. all i can say is if u have friends on the team stay around them and if u dont wnt the others boys looking at ur boobs change in the girl's locker room after games and practices. about the bus thing try sitting by yourself or sitting with some 1 u kno won't hit on you.
p.s. im the only girl on my team 2. hope tht helps :P
2006-09-23 10:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by babykhi16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another line of work!
Honestly, 8th grade? Why would you want to play football anyway? Are you a tomboy? These immature little chits are probably thinking that the only reason you are on the football team is because you just want to be around all of them and so you can flaunt what you got. And they love patting each other's asses too, which will include yours. Why in the world be involved in a masuline, boy infested sport if you don't want these curious young adolescents checking out your boobs? If you truly are a feminine young lady, ditch the football and leave it up to the boys. If you cannot do that, slap the little pigs when they come on to you. If you are supposedly that great at football, beat the chit out of them and tell them to back off or kick them where their cup is. Now, when you are older, if you feel the need to beat men at their own game, become an awesome racecar driver!!!! That will show them who is boss!!!!
2006-09-23 09:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Assuming USA 8th grade is the same as a UK Year 8 (about 11 years old) you will have to play in separate teams eventually anyway.
Find an all girl team. Go for it girl, you can be as good as anyone if you want it badly enough!!
2006-09-23 09:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not weird...i was on the 7th and 8th grade A-team at my middle school...i was the best one there...i averaged at about 56-70 points a game...too bad the other guys sucked....!!! i was also the only girl on my baseball team..again the best hitter there!! the guys were all younger than me by like a year or two, they had been playing their whole lives and it was my first year...they were mean 2 me so i would kick their A S S!!! u should do the same to the guys...dont be scared 2 get in trouble...if u do, just tell them wut the guys would tell u...thats harassment
2006-09-23 09:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think it is weird at all. Im in the 9th grade and I know a girl who is a football player. She is good too. Just keep doing what you love and don't worry about what they think. Maybe they are just jealous. Them being perverts is normal ... most guys are. My advice is just too ignore them. Then if they touch you or something then punch them or something. lol Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. Have fun .. and good luck !
2006-09-23 09:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on playing football don't give up just because of the little boys . My girl is just like you she will not play with dolls she would rather be out there playing football. so for all us girls that never had the change to play sports or cheer for the team keep on playing football and show them little boys that you are just like them and that you can be the best . i hope this helps you and i think once my little girl is older and can play sports I'll be there beside her if she plays football.
2006-09-23 11:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats for being a girl on the football team! Sorry to say but guys want to see boobs...and there's realy not much you can do it about it which sucks. But if you are a good player i wouldn't let it effect your playing.
2006-09-23 09:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Marissa 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi you must be depressed with everything around you. But you should be aware that you are growing up now. You are becoming adolescent. So, you must take them lightly. You are not fond of such things now but after sometimes these things might fascinate you. So try to cope up. If you need more help you can mail at daipayan_karmakar@yahoo.com.
2006-09-23 10:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by daipayan_karmakar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got any good come backs? just use em. tell em to get their eyes off ur boobs, and into the game. and it's not weird. my friend plays football (she's a girl). hope i helped ya! :) Way to go for joining the team! us women need to be independent!
2006-09-23 09:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Harry Potter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋