im very worried i really want this baby but i have a threatened abortion(very likely miscarry)... i worried about this even b4 i started bleeding and it seems like my nightmare is coming true..my LMP was aug 13 so they thought i was about 6 weeks now, well i went in for my ob appt the 20th of sept and i was only suppose to see the nurse but since of my bleeding (no cramps, light red bleeding mostly only when i wipe, some little spots on liner, and switching to brown, then red then brown etc) i had to be sent straight to the ob, after examing me (cervix closed) he sent me to have an u/s... i did and they didnt see anything! i assure u i am pregnant.. 3 positive tests even one from the nurse.. plus they gav me a vaginal u/s .. and saw nothing so they think it might be too early to tell i go in for my second appt on tues im worried what do u all know about something of this case?
2006-09-23 08:50:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
also my bf found out he has mono :( i was exposed to this and thats another worry
2006-09-23 08:52:46 · update #1
I AM PROBABLY NOT 6 WEEKS... it was an estimated from my last period i am probably around 4.5
2006-09-23 08:53:44 · update #2
hello i am GOING TO AN OB!!! we talked... he diagnosed me..i just want to know if ppl have heard of something like this
2006-09-23 08:54:52 · update #3
its not a blighted ovum but intelligent anwer! they didnt see any placenta at all! nothing.. just a uterus.. like i said it was just too early i suppose
2006-09-23 09:03:18 · update #4
well i dont think its not becuz i dont have a baby.. the thing u are probably talking about u having is the blighted ovum... i dont have any evidence of that either so im not even going to put that in my mind just yet
2006-09-23 09:08:29 · update #5
yes thanks girl! i think that was def one prob i had... i had to get a u/s right away and just b4 i had to give a pee sample that i didnt have much urine for in the first place i had no time to drink any water so next i will drink tons! thanks
2006-09-23 09:18:57 · update #6
I went thru a similar experience early on in my pregnancy. I missed a period and did 2 home pregnancy tests which both came out positive. Went to the doctor to comfirm that I was indeed pregnant and due sometime in late december/early january. Later that weekend, I was having severe cramping and slight bleeding. We went to the ER, they tested for my HCG level which came back saying that I was pregnant. However, there was no sign of a sac or fetal pole when they did the vaginal u/s. So I was told to go see my OB that monday to check if my HCG level was raising and have another u/s. So I saw the OB that monday, still no sign of a baby but my HCG was going up. So, the OB had me come back the following week and had my HCG level checked every 2 days. The following week, we saw the fetal pole and heartbeat and now my baby girl is due Jan 13 2007.
So from what I experience, I think that you were experiencing the implantation of the embryo (cramping and bleeding) since they didn't see anything in your uterus. Have your HCG levels been increasing? If it is then when they did your first u/s, it was too early as you might only be a couple of weeks pregnant. Now another worry that your OB might have is that you might have an ectopic prenancy (implantation outside the uterus).
2006-09-23 09:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mylene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't need to stress out. That will make it worse. I think you need to stay in the bed lying down moving as little as you can and eat healthy foods. One of best friends was about 5 weeks along and she had the same thing happening (bleeding). She went to the ER and they told her there was about an 85% chance she was going to have a miscarriage. They told her to go home and stay on bedrest for a few days. Then shewent back to the doctor and they looked at her a little better and it turns out it was some sort of polyp (sp?) bleeding and that she was fine. She bled a little more after that and she had to take it easy. Happy to say she's still pregnant and due on Christmas! Just don't worry. Sometimes ultrasounds are a little wacky. If you don't have a lot of fluid in you it's harder for things to show up on it. Next time you go to the doctor drink several glasses of water. I hope this helps. Stay calm, sweetie.
2006-09-23 09:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY, MONO CAN DEFINITELY HAVE AN NEGATIVE AAFFECT ON PREGNANCY BUT YOU WILL BE FINE
YALL HAVE TO UNDERSTANDTHAT WHETHER U WANT TO KEEP A BABY OR NOT IT IS NOT UP TO YOU
IFIN GOD'S WILL YOU'LL HAVE IT IF NOT ITS HIS
EVERYTHING FOR A REASON
EVERYTHING
STOP STREESING,CHILL,RELAX,BREATHE WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO
BECAUSE STRESS CAN ALSO CAUSE A MISCARRIAGE
BUT
THE BLOOD IM SURE HAD U BEEN NEAR MISCARRIAGE YOUR OBGYN WOULDVE TOLD U
UNDERSTAND THAT THE BLEEDING CAN ALL BE IN YOUR BODY'S REACTION TO HAVING ANOTHER PERSON GROWING INSIDE IT
THATS ALL
DONT LET NOBODY TELL U THAT AINT NORMAL BECAUSE IT CAN BE FOR U
ALL THESE EX PREGNANT MOMS GET ON HER LIKE NAH THAT AINT GOOD OR NAH THAT AINT HAPPEN TO ME
SO THE F*U*C*K WHAT
YOUR EXSPREINCE IS YOURS ALL OF THEM WILL BE FEIRCELY SIMILAR BUT UNHEARD OF DIFFERENT YOUR EXSPERIENCE IS YOURS BECAUSE IT MAKE YOUR STORY YOURS
NOONE ELSE WILL EVER HAVE THE EXACT ONE MAY BE SIMILAR BUT DIFFERENT IF NOT TIMING, THE CAUSES, THE SYMPTOMS ,THE REACTIONS, EVERTHING IGUARREENTEE WILL BE DIFFERENT
JUST RELAX CHILL
THE MONO DISEASE U POSTED CAN AFFECT AND DAMAGE THE KIDNEY
MEANING BOWEL MOVEMENT,URINE ALL THAT I BELEIVE THATS THE KISSING DISEASE U CAN GET IT FROM DRINKING OR KISSING SOMEONE
ANOTHER THING EVEN THOUGH U AND YOUR BABY'S FATHER ARE LOVIN EACH OTHER OR WHATEVER
BECAREFUL WITH THE TONGUE KISSING WHILE U ARE PREGANT EVERYONE HAD GERMS AND BELEIVE IT OR NOT IF HE KISSES U AND GIVES U A GERM YOUR BODY DISLIKES OR CANT FIGHT OFF IT WILL KILL U
I AM NOT TRYING TO SCARE U
BUT ITS TRUE HIS BODY MAY BE ABLE FIGHT IT OFF OR EVEN LIVE WITH IT AND BENIFIT FROM IT BUT YOURS MAY THATS WHAT I MEAN WHEN I SAY ALL IS DIFFERENT
RELAX,IF U HAVE A PRAYER LIFE PRAY,AND THINK POSITIVE EVEN WITH THE MOST NEGATIVE REPORTS
2006-09-23 10:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it sounds like a miscarriage to me. I had one on Aug 15th 04, and had the same spotting problem it would keep switching from red to a brownish color. I went to my OB and he told me the test showed that my HCG levels was going down, I had new blood test done each day for one week and it keep going down, later that night I started cramping and went to the ER and my OB came in and told me that my baby had died inside of me. I hope you have better luck than I did! also I was 8 weeks when I lost my baby and they could never find it by ultrasound. Good Luck!
2006-09-23 09:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by jackie b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to be calm and relax. If I were you I would just really rest up until Tuesday if the spotting is the same as it has been since it started. If it changes in any way I would go to the doctor straight away. Either way you will be fine. Years ago I had some spotting and I was given some medicine and told to rest and everything turned out fine. Try not to worry so much. See how you go if you totally relax. Everything will be alright. God bless.
2006-09-23 09:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Learner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i sorry that you're having a hard time but i have gone through the same thing. i ended up having a miscarriage at 9 weeks but it wasn't really a miscarriage. just like u i had multiple positive results but when i had my ultrasound there wasn't a baby. it was explained to me that i was pregnant with everything but a baby and it wasn't my fault or my husbands. it is rare but it is something that happens. usually there just isn't enough information for the pregnancy to fully develop. I'm sorry if this upsets u but like i said, its something i went through too.
2006-09-23 09:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i saw my baby for the first time at 5 weeks. you mat have what is called a blighted ovum. its rare but happens sometimes
2006-09-23 08:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what can cause it, but I feel compelled to say that we get what we think about in this world. If you are worried, worried, worried about something, don't you find often it comes true? One thing you can do to help this situation is to try and change your brain's soundtrack or mantra. When you hear your mind worry about the baby, stop and say or think to yourself "There is nothing to worry about - this baby is going to be wonderful!"
I wish you peace and luck and every success!
2006-09-23 08:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
IF you are 6 weeks hun you SHOULD be able see the baby or atleast some sign of the baby.
2006-09-23 08:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you are pregnant and are in the process of a miscarriage, then go to the ER.
2006-09-23 08:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋