My husband wants to build a home on a lot of land he buys with his bestfriend...temporarily untill it sales(which could mean anything!! 1 year 2 years 8 years) I think the idea of living next door to his best friend is outrageaous. Especially being newlyweds......we don't need a third wheel! Any thoughts.Is that selfish of me?
2006-09-23 08:22:05 · 10 answers · asked by AUDREY H 4 in Home & Garden ➔ Other - Home & Garden
Even if I considered it....shouldn't I atleast be involved in the whol process of picking land and location and stuff???
2006-09-23 08:29:57 · update #1
Nice guy. Love him to death,,,,but ***'on NEXT DOOR NEIGHBORS???
2006-09-23 08:31:59 · update #2
I realize I'm not a lady, but let's NOT try to stack the odds in our favor, OK...? OK...!
At face value, before reading the additional background, I was gonna say it depends how comfortable the 2 of you are with it... However, you've made THAT abundantly clear...
Let me tell you this: There will be times when you'll want to do something with the girls and exclude him... His having his best friend next door would be a real blessing in that he'd only BE next door and his coming back to be with you would be as simple as you honking the horn when you got back from being out...
Wish my wife wanted to be with me as much as you want to be with him...!
2006-09-23 08:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the friend's not trouble. You really dont want your hubby next door all the time now do you?
Well some wife's wouldnt care lolol.
They would be saying woo-hoo he is away lolol.
So if he is over there all the time just tell his friend he has to cook your hubby' dinner when he is over there lololol.
2006-09-23 08:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by KittyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on this friend. Can you stand him? Have you ever "liked" him? Does your husband act differently when this friend is in his company? Does this friend respect boundaries for you and your husband now?
You need to seriously consider these questions.
2006-09-23 08:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100%. You don't need to be living next door to his best friend. You are supposed to be his best friend now anyhow. Temporary usually drags out for years...
2006-09-23 08:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love my husbands best friend (he happens to be married to my best friend) but i wouldn't want to live too close to them. we live about an hour away, and i think it keeps our friendship fresh. absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-09-23 08:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by one hot mamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess not as long as u both r happy about it but be sure to keep ur eyes on ur husband lol
2006-09-23 08:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very selfish, particularly if it is an investment meant to fund your future.
2006-09-23 08:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Caroline H 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Better to have a friend than to have none.
2006-09-23 08:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
His friends are your friends. Party every day!
2006-09-23 08:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋