I am in band, but so are many "popular" people. I listen to country, so do other people that have more friends, I spend alot of time withmy pets, cause i dont live near ANY other kids of any age. I'm kinda a tomboy cause i LOVE to play sports, but I still dress nice and everything. I'm getting all a's, but that isn't a big deal, and I really love disney movies like the nightmare before christmas, and old yeller, and the lion king etc. What would you say?
2006-09-23 08:20:35 · 14 answers · asked by TBA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The "friends" that i have also say i am too nice. Like, I cant stick up for myself with comebacks, cause i dont want to, or i wont make people pay me back when i buy them something small at lunch. i figure we need more nice people here.
2006-09-23 08:26:13 · update #1
Judgemental.
people use the word dork as if it has a negative connotation. Do you feel like you are a dork by what other people think of you?
If you dont do things other people do, then dont care what they think. If you like what you are doing, then keep doing it. However, if you feel like you want to do something out of your own want (not what other kids want from you) then go out and do them.
2006-09-23 08:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with who you are. It's a shame more people can't be that way. I think that Everyone is just way too judgemental. But in school you will always have that problem and for some reason people think that if they are mean or can just really hurt someones feelings they are cool because people laugh. don't stoop to that level. your friends should be proud to have an honest person to rely on! keep your head up. There's this quote in Never Been Kissed "There's a great big world out there.. and it won't matter if you were the most popular girl, the quarterback of the football team, or the nerdiest kid in school.Find out who you are and try not to be afraid of it!"-Drew Barrymore You seem like a very sweet and considerate person... be thankful for that=)
2006-09-23 11:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by booluvzdrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah ur not a dork. i think people saying you are ... are the insecure ones. they're not sure what they like or want and so when they see someone who goes for what they like or knows what they want they get intimidated or shaken up by something they've never seen or experienced. They mock and tease the unknown. Stick with ur passions and do what you like. In the end bro that's all that matters. Dont worry about it to much what people think. If it makes you feel better, its embarrassing but i was voted "Most Popular" back in highschool. Stupid awards back in school now that I think about it but even then everything u expressed that u liked i actually liked and although I didnt boast and mention it to everyone I had no shame admitting it if people asked. I love animals and had many pets, i listened to all kinds of music and that opend my mind and appreciation, playing sports wasn't my forte but i still was good at it, and heck yah I LOVE DISNEY MOVIES. i'm 28 and still love it. NO shame here.
Keep doing what ur doin.
2006-09-23 08:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you are ME when I was younger. I love to do all of the things you are doing. Even now as I am older and have kids of my own I do like to watch Disney with them and I do spend quality time with my pets also. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you are not a dork. And YES people can be judgemental when they don't understand who you are as a person. You sound smart kind and very athletic. So what!!! Be who you are and as for the rest of them, they can either like it or don't. The ones who don't, you don't have to deal with them.
2006-09-23 08:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get this whole nerd/geek/dork crap. In fact I hate it, some of my friends who are "dorks" are better friends than the popular people I hang out with. My advice would be to just be yourself, maybe you could join a club/group you are interested in and make friends with those people. And if that doesnt work just remember that most so called dorks come out a whole lot better in life than the popular kids.
2006-09-23 09:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by reaganaiken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completley understand you.while i grew to become into your age I felt purely as frightened as you.i grew to become into the clever one,I weighed extra desirable than a hundred pounds,i could no longer arise with the money for to purchase jordans(sometimes Nike or trucks).I actual have frizzy,curly hair.I went in the process the comparable issues you're dealing with.i think your soreness.i be responsive to that is hard and infrequently you purely could settle for a fashion life is.at some point it gets extra effective.All those people who failed and decrease instructions and wore jordans and american eagle the place are they going to be while extreme college ends? some will probable be single mothers compelled to drop out.Others would be in penal complex,or interior the streets doing drugs and getting wasted,or merchandising their bodies to earn some funds.the place would the clever nerds be? living the dream,vacationing all over the international,being each and every thing they ever was hoping to be.at some point that's going to be throughout.suitable now you're able to make the superb of it.you're able to you need to be your self and do the superb you could in school.perchance the clever persons are made exciting of by way of fact persons are jealous of them.perchance they want that their mum and dad would desire to be pleased with them too.they only make exciting of you given which you are the superb ingredient the want to be.i'm no longer asserting which you're able to be/gown like an entire nerd,gown in form yet attempt to no longer permit it triumph over you.be responsive to who you're and the place your going and that's all which will rely. sturdy success! c;
2016-10-01 07:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say hey its nice to meet someone like myself i love playing sports, spending time with my animals. i also get a's and i am in love with disney movies so what if people call you a dork that they are just to judgemental because i got alot of friends like you and me and it does not bother me one bit what people say so my opion is you are no dork your just another friendly face
2006-09-23 08:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by miss_faithful_butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice isn't a flaw. It's who you are. if your friends can't see what a special person that makes you than they really arn't your friends. I give money away all the time without asking for renumeration. Be you, don't be who other people tell you to be.
2006-09-23 08:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by webwriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur a really sweet person :D trust me ur not a dork always judge ur self in a positve way..Nice hobbies u have...always be happy
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2006-09-23 08:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by roxassnake16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a good wholesome person that doesn't fit the mold of what they think makes a person cool. You would probably be more fun to be friends with than those fake people any-day.
2006-09-23 08:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by sweetaspie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋