My wife is seven months pregnant and one of my friends acts 'disgusted' by even a picture of her pregnant belly. I personally think it's the most beautiful thing in the world. What do I say to my friend?
2006-09-23 08:07:13 · 35 answers · asked by PDS 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'll also add that the picture in question was on her myspace account.
2006-09-23 08:22:16 · update #1
Your friend I bet is a homosexual. Tell him what he does at restrooms at 3am makes you sick.
2006-09-23 08:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Your friend is a self-centered jerk. Time to find a new friend. I feel sorry for any woman that gets pregnant by that loser. I agree with you, but you really ought not to be showing other men pics of your wife's belly. Those are personal photos and I doubt if your wife would approve especially if the skin is showing.
Some men are turned off by the responsibility that comes from a baby and just seeing a pregnant woman reminds them of what low lifes they really are. Also, some men are deep into pornography and a pregnant woman is no longer the sex object they "need" her to be. My ex was like that. Jerk and he wonders why I'm happily divorced.
2006-09-23 08:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't, as a matter of fact I think pregnant women are beautiful and so do most of my friends and aquaintences. I had a hard time making my ex wife believe me when I constantly let her know how much she "glowed" and how beautiful she was while pregnant. But just like everyone else in America, your friend is entitled to his opinion. So you don't say anything to him. You can't force your friend to feel the way you do.
2006-09-23 08:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by pc_droo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would explain to him that until he has a pregnant woman so close to his personal life, that he won't understand where you and MOST men & woman are coming from when it deals with the beauty of a pregnant belly. Then just DON'T include him in conversations about your wife and DON'T show him pictures of her. Distance him from this part of your lives!
2006-09-23 08:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that a pregnant belly is adorable. It is a source of pride. When I see someone who is pregnant, I can't help but to smile, because I know the experience and the great things about to come. Your need to talk to your freind and tell him that just because he doesn't like a pregnant belly doesn't mean you want to hear about it. Tell him to keep his opinions to himself, because it upsets you. You enjoy this time you have with your wife and don't let anyone bring you down about anything. Congratulations on the new baby, I wish you both the best.
2006-09-23 08:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by momoftwo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently your friend has never had a wife or girlfriend that he was completely in live with that was pregnant. If he did he would understand how you feel. A pregnant woman is one of the most beautiful things in the world as she has such a serene glow about her.
2006-09-23 08:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by cabjr1961 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love your adoration of the woman body.
Can you please come kick my husbands asss so he can be as thrilled by my pregnancy as others?
I feel like a fat cow enough as it is without his constant "your boobs are unearthly and huge, when will they EVER be normal again" or "your butt is fatter" and the ever sexy "your stomach is huuuuuge, what the heck."
It'd be nice if more men appreciated the fact that their wives bodies can create a living human being from nothing more than a single donated cell. Men cant do anything except lift heavy stuff. Women can make life. Men should seriously be in awe.
It is an attractive thing. If i were a guy I'd think my pregnant wife's body was smoke'n.
2006-09-23 08:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
everyone has there own opinion on that. not everyone thinks that a pregnant women is unattractive. some people think that that is when a women is most beautiful. in my own opinion i think that pregnant women are very beautiful because they are carrying a new life and nothing is more beautiful then that. for those who think it is unattractive i just think that they don't appreciate the miracle of life.
2006-09-23 09:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends crazy. Almost every man i've met thinks that pregnant woman are the sexiest when they are pregnant. They say the sex is the absolute best too. I am six months pregnant and i have had more men hit on me now than before i was pregnant.
2006-09-23 08:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by I love my baby boy!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men are turned on by the sight of a pregnant woman, but from a strictly medical point of view it might be nature's way of protecting the fetus from damage from late-term sexual intercourse, and it probably is. Love your wife, but realize that not everybody will like the same things that you do.
2006-09-23 08:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Paul H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it,that's his opinion.You'll be surprised to know that there are many a man that are turned on by pregnant women,By the way has your friend got a woman,well if he has he's in for a shock if she gets pregnant.
2006-09-23 08:51:19 · answer #11 · answered by Countess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋