this is a Q to all the girls.why is it that sometimes there is a guy who loves you and you know it but you reject him and go for the wannabe player "mr.bling" tipe? i'm not saying all the girls are that way cause i'm a girl myself.just wondering cause iv'e seen it before but never experienced it.
2006-09-23 08:01:36 · 15 answers · asked by melley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont know. i guess we just do it?
2006-09-23 08:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by aniaaaaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that some girls are too blind to see love even when it's there right in front of them, so they go off with the good looking "cool" guy for a bit of excitement, thinking that they can change the idiot.
I've never had this problem myself, and I've never been in love, but it's happened to my friends.
It's one of the few faults we women have, we think we can change men. It's like Draco Malfoy fangirls when it comes to Harry Potter. They know others haven't changed him, but they think that they'll be the one who changes him. It applies for any bad boy.
It's stupid and sad, but that's how we learn, from the mistakes we make in life.
2006-09-23 08:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Alax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl been there and done that. We always want the guys who dont care about us and the one who are right for us we find something about them to brush them off . I don't know why we do this but it happens. I am actually with a guy who loves me and this time I didn't let it go.
2006-09-23 08:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always want what we can't have. It is challenge to go for the bad boys. That is where the fun is. But it is never real love. Pick the nice guys.
2006-09-23 08:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by niaflower 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, some girls are very attracted to the "bad boy" type. I for one, would never throw away someone who loves me, so I can "hang" with the "cool guy."
2006-09-23 08:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most people not just women necessarrily but most people like whats called fun trouble. If it's going to be a challenge then thats what they want.
2006-09-23 08:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the guy who just gives himself to the girl he loves is too easy to get, and she's rather get with the guy who makes himself seem unavailable. its really sad, but mostly true.
2006-09-23 08:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by jane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it makes them feel like they're more adventurous and sexy if they go for the bad boy.
2006-09-23 08:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls are attracted to the bad guys were just stupid LOL!!! believe I know I am one of these girls
2006-09-23 08:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Brandi D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People care about how others see themselfs.
2006-09-23 08:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Dex's Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c girls r afraid of wat might happen if they fell for the person who already loves them. they no the players will give them some fun w/o having to b serious.
did i mention taht girls r just stupid like that?
2006-09-23 08:04:24 · answer #11 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋