If she is your best friend, then you must be used to talking about everything and you must be really close, right? I assume you are only wondering about this because you are wondering if she fancies YOU, right? So, probably I would just ask something fairly inoccuous first like "Have you ever wondered what it would be like to kiss a girl?" and gauge her reaction to that. She might get all embarrassed and say "sometimes" or she might go "eww yuck what are you asking me that for?" either way hopefully the first question can lead into a discussion about it. Be prepared to be honest about your own feelings too - if she is, will it change your friendship at all? If not, let her know that it makes no difference to you either way. Keep in mind, before you even start this conversation, any cultural differences you may have - people from different backgrounds are used to different levels of personal space, and she may be the same way with all of her close friends.
2006-09-23 08:03:45
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answered by Sandi 2
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A good friend telling you that she loves you,does't mean she is a lesbian,just being a friend,and friends do compliment each other.
2006-09-23 07:58:33
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answered by Anonymous
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that doesnt mean she's a lesbian me and my friends always say "i love you" to each other and im a hundred percent sure im not a lesbian because i like guys and im sure shes not a lesbian cause she has a bf
2006-09-23 07:58:49
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answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3
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Saying "I love you" not means she is a lesbian....I say that to my friends, too
2006-09-23 08:39:42
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answered by Anonymous
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She is just showing much she cares about you. And even if she is a lesbian you shouldn't let that ruin your friendship.
2006-09-23 07:58:09
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answered by lil' g 2
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most friends do that, i do that..i say "oh i love you" to my friend and give them hugs but i am 100% positive that i am straight because i like guys.i know that for sure.
2006-09-23 07:56:21
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answered by iloveducks_99 2
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doesnt mean she is a lesbian but just ask her
2006-09-23 07:56:30
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answered by mom 1
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go down on her, if shes wet then she is a lesbian
2006-09-23 07:55:01
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answered by spyderman1212 4
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Okay you seriously need to get away from her. That is just wrong.
2006-09-23 07:55:09
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answered by pup 4
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i agree with sandi.
2006-09-23 08:24:26
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answered by Ele-Lily 1
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