i really want to talk to my mom about me going throuh puberty but i always get embarasses or she just isnt in that mood can you please help me get a converstation started
2006-09-23 07:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by Victoria S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Try asking her about her experiences as a teen and with her changing body. Tell her you need to talk to her about yourself and when is a good time?
If she was sexually molested or raised sexually repressed, she may never be able to talk with you about this.
2006-09-23 07:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat with my mom when I was a teenager. I ended up not asking any questions. I just listened to my older sisters and tried to learn what I could. I wish now that I had asked questions.
Be honest with your mom, tell her you need to know these things. If she absolutely won't talk to you, is there a teacher at school you can talk to over a lunch hour?
2006-09-23 07:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are alot alike. I was like that-kinda embarrased, not sure how she would react....adn of course she wouldn't be in be the mood. But, when it's just ya'll, maybe watching a movie, or ya'll saw something that related to puberty-catch her off gaurd where she can't say anything to get out of it and go from there..........it should work, but remeber take it slow, but don't take all day-she'll get annoyed.
2006-09-23 10:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Allgeier 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to approach her saying
mum i really need to talk to you,
and i hope she stops and listens,, if you don`t get a responce then maybe write a short note saying that you really would like to talk with her about puberty,, you sound mature and i hope that your mum has the time to talk with you ,, maybe you may want to make her a drink that way she only has to sit down...
2006-09-23 08:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by mam26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,you really dont have to tell her.She already knows
2006-09-23 08:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her that you have to ask her somethings that are happening to you that u dont understand!
2006-09-23 07:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋