Ive been in a long-distance relationship with my gf for over a year. I used to drive an hour and half to see her, but i feel that i need to take a break and see other people to see if shes "the one" for me. Pls tell me how to tell her without me hurting her badly.
2006-09-23 07:33:29 · 5 answers · asked by T.I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be totall honest with u, u should ask a woman this question. Another woman would know the feeling she would have, but u have to do it soon, because the longer u wait, the more ur hurting the relationship. Be honest. Women love honesty
2006-09-23 07:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Eric MD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't use that lets take a break crap. Just man up and say I am no longer interested in a long distance relationship and i want to date other girls. You are going to hurt her no matter what but once she gets over her hurt she will see that at least you haven't cheated on her and you were honest.
2006-09-23 14:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking as a women i look at it this way if you wont to see other people then you can't really love her because if you did you wouldn't be thinking of being with someone else.so just be honest and tell her its not going to work and you wont to see other people because that's the truth. yes i will hurt her at first but its better then lien by miss leading her to believing you will come back.
2006-09-23 15:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will just have to tell her the truth and tell her why, my bf was ohnost with me when he said the same thing but made sure I knew that he cares about me. And I understood except he couldn't handle not calling me a couple of dozen times a day lol. So we got back together. So if she loves you she'll understand.
2006-09-23 14:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up" IT'S OVER".!!Kinda harsh but still .my gf is gonna dump me unless I dump her first.............
2006-09-23 14:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋