Does anybody have any tips? My 1st bf dumoed me about 2 months ago, and it's really difficult for me to get over it.
2006-09-23 07:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It would be nice if you had someone to just spend casual time with for company. Going out to the malls, coffee shops, theatres,. etc.
2006-09-23 07:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 'dumped' tends to lower our self esteem as we've become 1 of a couple. Time to unthink.
Try to stop thinking about your times with him, but recall the things that made you happy before him, and pursue those things, and more, until other people enter your life and fill the voids. Try to be all that you were before him, that attracted him, and others will pick up on it too.
And feel OK about loving for yourself, as you are, not feeling sorry.
2006-09-23 07:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by SunDancer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get as active as you can with your other friends. A lot of times people stay alone when they feel hurt .. but do the opposite of how you might be feeling right now .. the more active you are .. the less you will think of him .. eventually.. and the more people you are around the better your chance of finding a new boyfriend. :) Good luck !
2006-09-23 07:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand why it's difficult for you to get over him but i dont think anybody can give you tips on how to recover.everything takes time and sooner or later you will reallize that there's a reason for everything and the fact that he dumped you will only make you stronger.he was only your first boyfriend and believe me it will get more challenging everytime.like they say "LOVE IS A BATTLEFIELD".
goodluck and hope you feel better soon!
2006-09-23 07:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by melley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL get busy. FIND some good friends. GET a puppy. HELP a child. VOLENTEER to the poor + needy. GO visit a shut in.DO something positive 4 your self. FIX you hair, buys some new clothes, fix your teeth. FIX up your living conditions. AND do what i did on friday GO BUY SOME CHINESE food. I LOVED THAT ! ! !! ! CHEER UP ! ! ! !
2006-09-23 07:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like they always say keep busy. Go out with friends or do something you really like to do. As they say time heals and its the truth. Hang in there and smile ;o)
2006-09-23 09:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. Time heals all. Give yourself 3 months on average. Busy yourself with hobbies, OTHER men, friends, dates, school, work, etc. Gosh, you totally can get over someone FAST.
2006-09-23 07:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ ms. @ ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're young, then please allow time to heal this wound.
You have a lot more to live for and more love to give to someone else.
I know it hurts, but I assure you time will mend this.
If you're in your 30's....
JEZUUS Holy Mary of Good Things (***slap***)
Snap out of it!
C'mon... Let's go out for drinks!
2006-09-23 07:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by The Mac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really are no tips. It takes time.
2006-09-23 07:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep around.
Email me.
2006-09-23 07:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋