In some cases is it better to not tell your partner?
2006-09-23 07:26:11 · 17 answers · asked by QuickBrownFox 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It is always better not to tell your partner, unless you are playing around unsafely...then, take your medicine and if he leaves you, then he leaves you.
Those who tell their partner are dumbing the guilt on to their partner's backs while they go free...nasty. Double crime, isn't it?
2006-09-23 09:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the urge to cheat then you shouldn't HAVE a partner. Think of the hurt the other will feel when finding out.
2006-09-23 09:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to cheat then you should let your partner go. Always consider how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Would you want to know that the person you love doesn't love you and was spending time with someone else?
2006-09-23 07:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mo the Great 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. It's best to always to be honest. If you can't even be monogamous in your (supposedly monogamous) relationship, it's time to evaluate why you're being so selfish.
I cheated on my last boyfriend, and I didn't feel good about it. I didn't tell him, and he wasn't hurt, but I ended up breaking the relationship off because obviously I was cheating because I wasn't being true to myself. Infidelity is never good for a relationship.
2006-09-23 08:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Vancouver-snuggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your partner needs to know, coz eventually it'll come out. So, might as well get it over with now. Or break up with her, you would'nt cheat if you really love your partner... remember, what goes around comes around....
2006-09-23 07:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Keepingmycool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me if I am in a relationship I would want it to be monogamous. I guess, unless other rules had been agreed upon.before becoming partnered.
2006-09-23 08:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by nicenvt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIDN"T I TELL U BOY KEEP THAT SH*T 2 URSELF if u did it again MOVE ON b/c U CHEATED. look its is better, unless u really want to get rid of that person. so if u really want to move on and be wit some1 else go rite ahead but i'll tell u this AGAIN if u want to loose that person u wit u better KEPP ur TRAP shut and fantsize about another that what i did.
2006-09-23 10:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by EiaMaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases
2006-09-23 08:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by The Greek Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a relationship do you have If you have to lie. Your partner WILL find out, they always do.
2006-09-23 09:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're in love, you don't cheat, if you're in lust you do, and in case you want to deceive you partner, you better not tell him.
2006-09-23 07:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋