I hav this guy friend who only talks about sex. Anytime he's around me i get really uncomfortable. He only talks about hurting girls and it makes me want to give him a piece of my mind. What should i do, because i'm forced to hang out with him because his mom is my mom's best friend, and when she comes over he comes over.
2006-09-23 07:11:49 · 6 answers · asked by Yvone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just because he's ur mom's friend's son doesn't mean u have to hangout with him, tell ur mom he's this way and that u rather not be around him. She's ur mom and as ur mom she will not stand for him being around u making u feel this way. H\She's gonna have to have a talk with her friend about this because she needs to know her son is this way,
When u think about it this is like him sexually abusing u ( u feel that because he's a son friend of ur moms u can't tell her because she will be upset or hurt( she will but not at u at him) he';s the one that wrong not u and u shouldn;t have to put up with this because he's an uver sexed dog. He's mom may not know this and if u tell ur mom and she tells her friend about her oversex son she either will get mad or she will fix the problem with her son.
Don't stand for anyone making u feel uncomfortable even if it's a close friend, family or a stranger.
He will keep doing this because he's a jerk and think it's ok and as long as u don't say anything he will say u must like it if u haven't said anything.
Tell him u don't like the way he make u feel, if that don't work then just walk away and then tell ur mother that u did tell him and he kept doing this and now ur taking a stand tell her u don't have to put up with him and her the next people or person ur gonna tell is the police or a lawyer.
After that u should get some attention.
2006-09-23 07:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT being forced to do anything. Tell you Mom what is going on NOW! That will put an end to it.
2006-09-23 14:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds crazy! Stay away! Go to the library or to a friends or pretend you are taking a nap. This is abusive and you should tell your mother.
2006-09-23 14:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL HES JUST A FRIEND , TELL HIM WHAT YOU THINK , DONT HOLD BACK BECAUSE HIS MOM AND YOUR MOM ARE BEST FRIENDS , TELL HIM THAT HE MAKES YOU FEEL UNCOMFORABLE , YOU CAN DO THIS IN A CLAM WAY , JUST SIT HIM DOWN AND TELL HIM YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT SOMETHING THAT IS BOTHER YOU , NO BODY IS FORCED TO DO ANYTHING THAT DONT WANT TO
2006-09-23 14:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Joyce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and lighten up. Perhaps you are actually titilated by the conversation and are curious.
2006-09-23 14:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by The Dark Lord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel in front of everybody. Then when he comes over ...leave.
2006-09-23 14:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋