Okay heres the story, my ex-boyfriend and I have become really good friends, we are not interested in having a bf/gf relationship anymore but we are like best friends now! But now he got a new gf and she wnt let me talk to him anymore, I would talk to him everyday, just as friends, like about what happened at school and just stuff friends talk about. I miss not being able to talk to him since his big fat gf "sorry im mad" wont let him takl to me!!! IM SO MAD, and SAD , HELP what should I do.
Serious answers only please,!!
2006-09-23 07:11:13 · 23 answers · asked by girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ignore his gf. and if she gets mad, so what?? she can't control you. and can't she trust her own bf?? you can talk to him all you want but being his gf doesn't mean she can control who talks and who doesn't talk to him. after all,they're not married. even married people can't control who talks to their husband..they can only control what other people do to her husband..but that's a whole different thing.
2006-09-23 07:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard. But this too shall pass. I would refrain from calling or texting, and go to the old fashion way of U.S. Mail. That's right I would write him a letter at least once a week. Just to say hi, how are things going? What's the latest? And at the same time tell him what's going on with you. Don't call him. If he misses you or wants to get a hold of you let him call you. But I think doing the letter in the mail thing will be more connection with your friendship because your taking the time to actully put your words down. For some reason it goes straight to the heart. Yes your mad at his girlfriend but dont let that bother you. If you guys are best friends he will not let her come between you. You have a past with him and I'm sure you hold a special place in his heart! Best Wishes.
2006-09-23 07:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Starla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks, I really feel for you but don't you think you should move on, maybe meet more friends and enjoy life a bit, if that fails stick a pair of your knickers in he's trouser pocket when he's not looking and send him round he's new girlfriends house straight after, im sure you'll be able to talk to him all you want the next day
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2006-09-23 07:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by fawcett1101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her tell you what to do you can talk to him anytime. They aren't married right? And as you say, it is STRICTLY friendship there are lots of people who found out later in their relationships that they are better off as JUST friends and have a greater relationship that when they complicated it with bf/gf stuff!
2006-09-23 07:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a perfect world, we girls would let our bf's talk to their ex's, BUT this an't no perfect world and its ridiculus to think that he would even have time for you. Sorry!, but be honest with yourself, would you let yoiur bf talk to his ex? Its code of ethics, to have the full respect of his current gf he has to abide by what she says. She is jealoius of you so take that as a comment, and sooner or later he might choose your friendship over his hoe!
2006-09-23 07:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! I'm in the same situation. My ex's girlfriend is pushing me away from him too, but i found out that it was my ex telling her to do that. so most likely if he's not stopping her from doing it- then he doesn't want u to talk to him anymore. I'm now just ignoring him and have moved on. It's hard at first but you should try it.
2006-09-23 07:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by nobody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her. Just tell her straight out that you and him are not romantically interested in each other, and that she doesn't need to worry about the two of you. She probably thinks that by you two talking, you two might get back together.
2006-09-23 07:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, you wont lose his friendship. its impossible for you two to be together regularly when one or both of you have a relationship going. next time try and befriend his girlfriend. flatter her, tell her how much he loves her (you know what makes women smile). pls dont nag him. dont lose the friendship, he'll come to you whenever he needs to relax (and maybe u two will realize friendship is the main ingredient for a successful relationship!) GO GIRL KEEP YOUR MAN!
2006-09-23 07:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by gentle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a real friend, he won't let anything come between your relationship. Call him and tell him what's up and how you feel. And if you have to, call her and tell her you're not interested in him so she doesn't have to be jealous.
2006-09-23 07:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋