painful,nice,horrblie,beautiful,bloody. im a virgin and am jus interested
2006-09-23 07:09:39 · 4 answers · asked by liltammy1988 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The night was magical because we were both virgins. I was 18 and it was on prom night. I had been dating my prom date off an on for about 6 months and I really liked him. He went to a Catholic school and I went to a public school so we didn't see eachother alot. But he was the love of my life and I wanted him to be my first. After the prom we went to a few of the after parties then to get something to eat. Then we went to his house and did it in his room. It was very soft, gentle and innocent.
2006-09-23 07:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatebabycakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fearful & quite painful with some bleeding. I was interested, maybe even a little excited, but it was not what I expected.
Later, in nursing school, I learned that I was too young (17) to enjoy it. In most instances a girl is incapable of orgasm until 18-23 years of age.
Personally, I felt depressed after the experience and greatly regretted it for years to come, despite the fact that I loved him deeply. I lost my innocence and that is something you can never reclaim.
When you are young and curious it just winds up feeling dirty. When you wait until you're system is physically devoloped it is a beautiful thing, a union of body and spirit, this is something a teenager is not physically able to experience. It has nothing to do with maturity or love, it is simple medical and psychological science.
2006-09-23 07:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Gigi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
On our first attempt it was so painful.I tried to take it but,I couldn't and the surprising thing was I wanted to keep trying,but my boyfriend didn't want to keep hurting me. So for a few months he fingered me to loosen me up and it helped alot. The night before my birthday I made up an excuse about my car acting up so I could stay the night, we woke up right as the sun was coming up and something came over us, and we looked into each others eyes and it just happened and it didn't hurt at all, it was so beautiful.
The most important thing is foreplay which creates lubrication which makes things much more pleasurable for everyone. If you are extra lubricated he will slide right in, it may hurt for a couple minutes at the most.But that pain will go away, and pleasure will come.
2006-09-23 10:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Shametria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time??? Here's something about my first time giving birth that you should keep in mind when you think you are ready to have sex. Just wait until you're older. When I gave birth I had to be poked 9 times with the epidural needle due to unique spacing in my spine. When my daughter came out, she came out so fast that I had 4th degree tears. My doctor had to sew me up for 45 minutes and told me she put stitches as far as she could reach because they were that bad. I'm married, my husband and I planned to get pregnant, and he's my one and only. Hope this helps!
2006-09-23 07:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋