My x-bf (My 1st and only, so far, bf) or 2 months dumped me about 7 weeks ago. Should we try being friends. He dumped me by a rude email, be he had a friend over who was encouraging him. He WAS my old bro's best friend, and we were really close friends for about 1.5 months, b4 we got together. I miss his company, but am really pissed off @ him for dumping me like that, and putting me through a fake realtionship. I want to make peace between us, so I don't have to hate him & there isn't always awkwardness. PLESE HELP!
be-friend, or not?!
2006-09-23 07:00:08 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I miss talking to him. He was always my #1 favorite person to talk to, and it's hard living without it.
2006-09-23 07:02:13 · update #1
I loved him so much. Like, I devoted EVERYTHING to him, and he didn't do the same. We only saw each other 4 times in our relationship, because he wouldn't ever make plans. It's sucked, and I hate him, but I want to get over that. I sent him an email saying I want to be friends 4 days ago & he didn't reply.
2006-09-23 07:04:37 · update #2
send him an e-mail and express yourself to vent for YOU, not for him. he sounds like a loser. move on with your life.
2006-09-23 07:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts, doesn't it? My x-bf used to be one of my best friends. I used to talk to him at school and he used to send me sweet SMSs. Actually I dumped him but that doesn't mean I hated him. I wanted us to be friends like before that relationship. He was hurt when I dumped him cuz he loved me so much. He never got it over and we're not friends any more. I would like this to change but I cannot, because I'm the one who hurt his feelings. Don't make the same mistake. Try to become his friend again. Friendship is very important and you'll see what I mean. Good luck sweety!
2006-09-23 14:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys were only dating for two months so I don't think it's a big loss whether or not you stay friends with him.
2006-09-23 14:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Green thumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should be friends with him. show him what he's missing out on. that's the BEST thing in a bad relationship. =) i hope you'll find someone else who treats you with respect & love. good luck!!
2006-09-23 14:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by jv637 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to befriend and ex. They can be a great asset as a friend.
2006-09-23 14:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be friend with him send a Flying Kiss to him.He will give you a physical kiss.
2006-09-23 14:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by JILMAAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should be friends with him...it makes the whole thing 100000000x easier trust me!
2006-09-23 14:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. the only time you should stay friends with your ex is when you have kids.
2006-09-23 14:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♪♥bored♣♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should show him your t*ts & he'll come to realize just what he is missin' out on & maybe want you back!
2006-09-23 14:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only your friend will be able to help you.Talk to him about this.
2006-09-23 14:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋