Ive been with my partner for 7 years now and i have a three year old to him. The thing is he doesnt pay me and attention what so ever, sexual wise. He makes all the same moves most nights which i find boring, i can parade round the house if i wanted in my bra and knickers and he takes absoultley no notice what so ever. I'm very consious of my figure due to having a baby and he knows that but still takes no notice. Its either i have a horrid body or he is turning gay!!!
2006-09-23 06:39:32 · 10 answers · asked by fairylandk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its neither, he's just being insensitive. Rather than parading around in your underwear making you feel even more unattractive, talk to him about how your feeling. Men need to be told, they don't understand sublety or mind read.
2006-09-23 06:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by sarkyastic31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey let me ask you do you have sex at all?. If you do you got to be the who says not tonite or don't show him interest for a while soon he'll get pissed off and ask you what the problem is, and you simply tell him your not a lite bulb, your not going to turn on and off just because he flicked the switch! If your not have sex at all then you need to have a heart to heart talk with him because no guy that is in a relationship can go without sex for too long. Best of luck hun!
2006-09-23 13:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by djdawn85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a guy, he may feel that the relationship is in a rut. everything has become too routine. you guys need to talk and explore new interests with each other (whether it be sexual or not). let him know how you feel, otherwise he may continue to think everything is normal as usual. if talking with each other alone does not help, and all the conflict of interest relates purely to the sexual side of the relationship, i'd consider going to a sex therapist together.
2006-09-23 13:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by MikE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 7 years is too long a time with one partner. I think he is also bored with the same sex life. what I suggest is you take initiative and put some spice in your sex life such as going to a holiday resort, watching adult movies to gather, having sex in places other than bedroom and learning new sex techniques on bed.
2006-09-23 13:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by sony_sony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about it, or why leave it up to him?
Invest in some sexy underwear, get a babysitter for the night, go out for a few hours then come back and strip off for him!!
2006-09-23 13:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by horsegal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be so HOT he is intimidated by you and sticks to keeping it simple. Some guys don't know how to open up to a girl that intimidates them.
2006-09-23 13:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by lfaulk0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey no worries m8 i got same problm an we only been 2 gether 3 months
2006-09-23 14:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by pollypocket150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be subtle . they do not get it! get a new outfit! buy some fun stuff lotions, etc.. ( find somewhere for your baby to be)Play like when you were first together!!! the sparks will fly!!!
2006-09-23 13:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows he can just make his standard move and get sex. So that is what he does. He does not look at your body, he just has sex with it. He basicaly has sex with you because he can, not because he wants too.
2006-09-23 13:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a clear dilogue with ur partner
some are not at the best in expressing love
2006-09-23 13:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋