He spent what could have been used for gas money,and put the 26.00 in that stupid game. Plus, his avatar has a wife,and is "pregnant" with twins. His avatar has cybered several times with hers,and she has a real life fiancee. We have been married 10 years and argue over money,because it is tight alot of the time. We just got our lights turned back on, because he didn't pay the bill, but just recently got a new job and we are getting caught up. Should I be jealous tha he has this " online" maggiage,and says " i luv you hun," and crap like thta. No, he doesn't talk like that to me. Should I be worried? He pays the bills/rent/ gets the family taken care of AFTER he pays for this game. He used to love to play role-playing games and since we got married, I told him he needed to grow up,that games were for kids. He is like,35 going on 10. He still has computer games no matter what ,in his life. i am growing frustrated,angry,and am ready to leave him.
2006-09-23 06:08:11 · 9 answers · asked by Dragonflygirl 7 in Games & Recreation ➔ Video & Online Games
Wow, it sounds like your man is a real loser. Now its OK to be 35 years old and play games on-line, but he has to handle things like the lite bill and other things first. I'M 28 years old and i have been with the same person for over ten years now, and she has no problem with me and my gaming activity's because i make sure my children and my girlfriends needs come first before anything else. If my kids need me for something, then the games will wait as long as they have to. There is nothing wrong with playing games at 35, he just has his priority's messed up, and hes disrespecting you as well. You are the woman, so i would put the smack down on him if i was you, And if he still doesn't change his ways, then you need to find a new man.
2006-09-23 21:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet addictions are a big problem to mess up relations. If he actually loves spending time with his online wife more than his real one, your relationship is going to be destroyed. You must break your relationship. The only time a married person has an online wife is if that online wife is also as well his real life meaning they have an internet obsession. You must look for someone else. Either that, or you could always throw the computer out.
2006-09-23 06:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Azure Tempesta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly your daughter actually needs to check that hitting somebody in a controversy is not any thank you to clean up something and for that as become in the previous stated perhaps there could be some style of counseling. on the different hand your daughter is 13 years previous and you may anticipate that there will be some significant blow outs. that is what little ones do. they could try their barriers, and exert their independence. that is an extremely known component to transforming into up. consistent with probability the undeniable fact which you circumvent conflict makes it look slightly worse than it unquestionably is.
2016-10-17 12:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone get interested in what life might be like. You can't blame a gamer for being interested in something 100x more interesting than real life. And older people than him play video games, if games were for kids only then adult life would be boring.
2006-09-23 06:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Phantom Ice-Cream 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously He needs a life the game is called 2nd life because your 1st life is more important : P I would say that you go to therapy with him and try just talk to him 1 on 1 and say please stop playing second life. If he continues to play that and talks to his hubby in game then i suggest u leave him before it gets uglier. (Caution: Im only 14 but i know what im saying!) Trust me!
2006-09-23 06:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
long story short: he has a problem that probably stems from lack of a father figure in early childhood. he needs to get to a psychiatrist and work through these issues, especially if the game playing is affecting his day to day life. once I realized that I played games because of my lack of a father figure, my need to play disappeared, and I went from 30 hours a week playing to 0.
2006-09-23 06:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your husband has a real problem. If he refuses to get help, you're going to have to decide if you're better off without him.
Check if there are any divorce attorneys in your area who have free consultations.
Your husband is WAY too old to be so seriously involved with that crap.
2006-09-23 06:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow thats scary.....i think he needs some help
2006-09-23 06:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Samren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be worried, but don't be.
Talk to him about it.
2006-09-23 06:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by kenk1229 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋