Should a guy be sensitive and shouldn't be afraid to cry?or should he bottle it all up and keep cool in in tough situations?
2006-09-23 06:03:46 · 33 answers · asked by That one guy 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Don't be afraid to cry if you're sad or frustrated. If your dog dies, cry. If your friend dies, cry. If you lose a football game, try not to cry. You might just end up looking like a sore loser. In a general sense, I see nothing wrong with a guy who cries. In fact, I would only date a guy who let me see him cry. Hope this helps.
2006-09-23 06:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dillydally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy with sensitivity. I spent many years with guys that didn't have any at all, guess this is how they were brought up, and now I know that I don't like that at all
If they are bottling everything up and keeping "cool" with everything, it has to come out somewhere, and it's usually at home. No, I don't like men who bottle it up and play it cool all the time, this is carried over into other areas too, so I say let er rip if you're upset lol
2006-09-23 06:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try for midway. Sensitive is good but overly sensitive is not. Being cool in tough situations is good but being tough and showing no emotion all the time is not.
2006-09-23 06:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on different situations
i think most guys act like the second choice: they bottle it all up and keep cool in in tough situations!
2006-09-23 06:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something really horrible happens, like his mother dies, then yeah, it's expected for him to be crying. I don't mind if a guy shows his sensitive side in appropriate situations, but I hate guys that are crybabies (like my ex). It gets very annoying. Guys should not be crying over stupid things, like if someone says their shirt is ugly or if they yelled at, etc.
2006-09-23 06:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. It's nice to be around a man that can handle a tough situation but it's also nice to know they have a heart as well.
2006-09-23 06:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Kiedis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little sensitivity is good, so long as he doesn't cry at everything. But equally it's not good to bottle everything up.
2006-09-23 06:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ella G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moderation is a good thing for almost everything and everyone. Crying is a good thing. It allows the body to release stress and it shows others that you are, indeed, human. Just so long as you don't lose your head and become a bigger problem than the one on hand.
2006-09-23 06:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both....A real man has to know when to use each one appropriately.
When a girl is down and depressed she needs a strong capable man.
When she is the tough one..he can let his guard down and show the sensitive side
2006-09-23 06:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh depends on the situation.he should be sensitive but not cry over small things and learn to keep cool in bad situations
2006-09-23 06:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by Stevie-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋