I went on my first gay date last night and I got a kiss.. well a couple of em all throughout the night
so what does this mean??
when do i call him back?
when would be a good time to hang out again??
Do you follow the same rules you do when you go out with a chick??
/confused
2006-09-23 05:34:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mj 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't think that waiting to call is a cool thing to do. It's frustrating for the other person and if you wait long enough, he may just be over you.
2006-09-23 08:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, good luck with this. The rules are about the same.
You can call him whenever you want, but I think for a first date, you call next day, or the second day, no later. If you get his voice mail or roommate, you leave a message, don't call a second time, it's in his court. If you don't hear from him in two or three days, you can call once more to be sure he got the message, and then that's it.
As for a good time to hang out again, think about what's coming up that you could do together. If there's something going on tomorrow that you'd like to attend with somebody (sports event, concert, street fair, etc.) soon, don't wait! Ask him! If it's just hanging out, you have to feel out the time. A week or two weeks is the longest. Just like when you were dating chicks, you don't want to be so anxious he feels pressure, but you do want him to know that you're interested.
2006-09-23 13:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, relax. Take a deep breath, none of this is a life or death thing...
Call him and tell him you had a great time. IF he wants to talk, he will. IF he doesn't , the call will be short. Nothing ventured, nothing gained kind of thing.
IF he talks, says he had a great time, then make another date before you hang up...it really is very simple, nothing magical...just common sense. And yes, exactly like a "chick." Same rules, nothing different . Good luck and peace.
2006-09-23 13:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him the following day and ask him to do something different.
For example, if you went to dinner on your 1st date, go to the movies on the 2nd, for a drink on the 3rd (if you're over 21) and so on.
That way you can find out more about him not by just talking but from his choices as well. What his favourite food is, what kind of movies he likes to watch, where he hangs out, the way he responds in different situations and stuff like that.. It's one of the best ways to find out about a person's character.
2006-09-23 16:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by The Greek Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out! A gay relationship is the same as any other, except it's same-sex instead of opposite-sex. If you're interested, call back when it feels right to you. Same with hanging out, and so on.
Good luck - and hope this guy turns out to be right for you!
2006-09-23 16:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by living_in_a_bell_jar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is right ..if you are really into him call and let him know you would like to see him again. he may feel the same way....as for Luke p you lead a sad life time to move away from the computer and experience life for real
2006-09-23 15:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be chilled and go with the flow!
call him back the next day if you really really like him, if you wanna hang out with him again then go for it... there are no hard and fast rules
good luck
x
2006-09-23 12:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow, Chris has a great answer there ! Do what feels right !
2006-09-23 12:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by nicenvt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not call him back now? And are you doing anything tonight that might be interesting to him?
2006-09-23 13:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by dmspartan2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow...easier to read guys emotionally...more stable...best of luck..
2006-09-23 13:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋