Guess what my so called friend did to me...
i told my friend katrina that i liked this boy named Jay Gregory, right?
And she tried to get up togetherour sophomore year, and this year our junior year, she all of the sudden come up to me and says do you still like Jay?
i say a little bit why?
she says never mind im not going to tell you, then i grab her and say tell me.
im thinking this is some good information...
she tells me that she didnt know he goes over her aunts house, and so she invites him, then asked him did he smoke.
he said yeah, so the next time they talk they are drunk , and high; and the next thing theyre doing it.
when she told me she made it seem like i was supposed to forgive her, and we'd be cool.
i feel like im so stupid because i was the one who told her that i liked this boy and she did everything in her power to get us together, and now she got him.
then told me that he is catching feelings for her now, and that he wants to go with her?
what should i do?
2006-09-23 05:11:17 · 24 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What kind of friend is that!!?? You could never trust her again that's for sure. There are many more friends out there, TRUE FRIENDS, just wish them both the best and steer clear of that girl!! You will find someone better as a boyfriend, and especially someone better and true as a friend. MOVE ON!! Forgive yes forget NO!
2006-09-23 08:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well at least she told u and u didn't find out by a friend of a friend or something... u need to turn the other cheek- just don't talk to her, don't spread rumors tho, don't do anything back, it's not like ur gonna get the guy now if u did u no it wouldn't be real so just move on- forgive her but don't be her friend for a while she needs to know that what she did was unexcusable
2006-09-23 12:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by basketball chica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop her azz...you dont need a friend like that, the minute you wanted him it became a challenge for her to want him, and by her knowing you wanted him and she went for it anyway thats just not good, that was foul, im not violent but she deserved a smack down for that! I say tell her about herself in a dignified way and then drop her, he will eventually drop her too, and who do you think she will come running back to to help her pick herself back up again?......
2006-09-23 12:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by brite star 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all she not a friend if she did that to you. friends dont do **** like that to each other. second all you need to let it go. this jay guy is not the only guy in the whole wide world ok. you guys are still young and need to stop fighting over this guy. anyway forget her and him and move on and i bet you will find someone much better and hotter. good luck and i hope this help.
2006-09-23 12:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS BE SO THANKFUL THAT THE TWO OF THEM ARE OUT OF YOUR LIFE AND HAVE ONE ANOTHER, THEY DESERVE EACH OTHER.
YOU USE THE TERM FRIEND LOOSELY, A REAL FRIEND WOULD NOT PULL THIS STUNT. JUST REMEMBER HOW THIS FEELS AND NEVER DO IT TO ANYONE.
I ACTUALLY FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR FRIEND. IT WASN'T BAD ENOUGH THAT SHE MADE A PLAY FOR HIM, BUT SHE THROW IT IN YOUR FACE. THIS PERSON HAS TO BE A VERY UNHAPPY INDIVIDUAL.
GO AND BE HAPPY ELSE WHERE.
2006-09-23 14:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey sounds to me that she was never your friend cause if she was she wouldn't have done what she did. so you need to let them both go there are more boys out there then him and defiantly better girlfriends then her so learn from it and move on.
2006-09-23 14:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. if he wanted you.. you too would have been together. also... the alcohol and smoke are not good recommendations for a boyfriend. this is not your fault.. why are you feeling stupid. she is the one that got laid because she was high. they will not stay together...forever. trust me. yes , she is your friend..but really.. once she tried to get u together and it failed.. she owed you nothing else. he was not your boyfriend.. there was no relationship. i do not think you too will be cool.. again... but i do not think she did this to hurt you either. i think you are better off without him. and if you smoke ..or even drink underage...STOP.
2006-09-23 12:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a big mess. I think you need to get a grip and move on.
2006-09-23 12:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you think you owned either of them?
Face it baby, you tried for a year and he didn't want you. He wanted your friend. Now grow up and get over it.
Just because you couldn't get the guy doesn't make him off limits to everyone you know. What kind of friend would expect that?
2006-09-23 12:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You're a junior in high school and you act like that?
Who cares who screws who. Big deal.
Obviously he wasn't interested in you anyway since your numerous hookup attempts didn't pan out.
What you should do is not care.
2006-09-23 12:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋