My girlfriend has been upset because I have appriciated one of her friend on her seminar. She is not talking to me since one week, now I don't know how to convience her that I just verbally appreciated her friend and I have no interest in her friend, but she doesn't believe my words.....
Pz. tell me how to convience her ( What gift should be better to give her...? )
2006-09-23 05:03:36 · 13 answers · asked by SP!DEY ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give her the gift of "TRUTH". The rest is up to her.
2006-09-23 05:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by peptown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be better writing her a letter and explaining how sorry you are, try and give her a little bit more time, as for gifts i would book her favorite restaurant and get her some pretty expensive flowers, and tell her how wonderful she is as maybe you dont really pay her enough attention? also tell her how stunning she looks, notice her if she is wearing anything new, as us girls really prefer to be noticed than trying to buy us instead of giving affection.
2006-09-23 12:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by TRACY M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say the actual word sorry - if she doesn't accept it, you can't keep saying it. Unfortunatley we girls like to make you men suffer so you don't do it again. Trouble is, you always do anyway!! Sit down and say you're sorry for what you did (if you did anything at all) and tell her you're sorry for hurting her. Be sincere and don't try any cheesey lines... She'll forgive you - eventually
2006-09-23 12:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by paula c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't get her a gift... she needs to hear this from you mouth and from you heart... Sit her down and tell her everything you told me today. tell her how much you love her and you don't want her to go away. you want her to trust her because whts a relationship whtout trust...ect.
She will hear your words!! But wht do i know i'm only in the 8th grade!
2006-09-23 12:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can to is tell her...there is no reason to give her a gift...you might buy a card and put your feelings in writing...then let it go...and if she does not start acting like the friend you think she is then she is not much of a friend...you should not have to convince her...actions speaks louder than words...but do not let this bother you...write her a card and tell her how you feel then let it go....
2006-09-23 12:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should write her a love letter, that you know she'll really appreciate, and give her a really nice piece of jewlrey, or a box of chocolates to go with it.
2006-09-23 12:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by musicgirl152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont kiss *** I bet she thinks some one else is in need of a compliment what ever happened to TRUST
2006-09-23 12:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by Wendellp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter that goes something like this. It is breaking my heart that someone who I care so much about will not speak to me. I am sorry if I may have offended you by what I said about your friend. I meant nothing by it. I am asking for forgiveness. Please accept my sincerest apology.
2006-09-23 12:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Smurfette 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she need to grow up ok and have a little bit more truth and faith you. dont buy her no gifts or anything because you didnt do anything wrong ok. she need to get over this thing ok. well good luck
2006-09-23 12:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say explaoin to her you have no romantic feelings towards her friend and you feel sad if she misunderstood your intention. Let her know you have romantice feelings for her alone and say thank you for alowing me to once and for all clear that up.
2006-09-23 12:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by dovesofpeace56 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋