well see i was going out with michael. and see i tould him that some body asked me out and he said better say no or wer over. and i did say no to the guy. so he tells me how much he loves me 5 min. latter he brakes up with me. okay ya i was in ters bc hes done this to me like 3 times and i keep giveing him chances and uhh.. then its like after we have soo much fun to geather he kiss's me then the next day he brakes up with me. 3 of my friends say hes only trying to get some thin from me and i belive them. and im so cunfuzed. ive taken risks 4 him i lost a friend cuz of him and ya he still cares about me. he allways flirts with me still and im tierd of it.. so hes like playn with my hed or some thin. well plzz help me !!! wat should i do. wev bean to geather 4 a year now so ....
2006-09-23 05:02:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay, seriously, YOU NEED TO BREAK UP WITH THIS GUY!!!! THINGS ARENT GOING TO GET BETTER THEY ARE JUST GOING TO GET WORSE. I promise. This guy is just stringing you along because he knows you'll give him another chance, your a doormat. He walks all over you, you need to be strong and stand up for yourself. Who cares if you've been together for a year? You'll be over him in no time. Just think of how horrible hes treating you. NO girl should put up with that or have to go through something like that, it breaks our hearts when the guy we like/love breaks up with us and then gets back together with us, then breaks up again, its just a repeating cycle. Either hes cheating on you or he just likes leading you on, but spare yourself some hurt and break if off NOW. I promise things wont get better, men never change and you need to find someone thats going to treat you right 100% of the time. If the bad outweighs the good in the relationship, that means its not a healthy relationship. I know this may sound stupid, but seriously one day when your really bored, sit down with a notebook and make a list of everything good thats happened in the relationship, and then make a list of everything bad thats happened, then you'll know right there that if the bad list is longer than the first list, you need to get outta there now, becaues if you stay around longer, you'll only hurt yourself in the end because it will take longer to get over him. It takes half the time you were going out with someone to get over him. So since you guys have been goin out for a year, it will take you six months to get over him COMPLETLY. Listen to your friends, they care about you, and they are right. Good luck.
2006-09-23 05:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give him any more chances. his goal is to control you and to bring you down. call the other guy back and let him know your single now if hes still interested. the worse that could happen is him turning you down and so what if he does- there's a whole lot more out there to choose from.
2006-09-23 05:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy does not know how to have a relationship and does not respect you and your feelings - dump him - you deserve better!
Good Luck!
2006-09-23 05:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either give him what he wants or get OUT of that so-called relationship.
2006-09-23 05:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him, finish school. None of this will matter when you're 20.
2006-09-23 05:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by M W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it a slow and painful death
2006-09-23 05:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore that person.
2006-09-23 05:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋