I need to drop a friend. she walks all over me and makes people think i'm a b****. i need a way to show her i am stronger than her. I don't want to beat her up, obviosly, I want to mess with her mind. I do have a way to know all her secrets,but she is spoiled and gets whatever she wants from her parents!
2006-09-23 03:00:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't worry about her.
You got you head stuck on straight and she don't.
You don't need her as a friend. Just don't pay attention to her any more. Time will give her the message and if she don't seem to get it then stand up to her and say I DON'T WANT YOU AS MY FRIEND. Hey she is spoiled.
You've grown out of having spoiled Lil brats as friends.
2006-09-23 03:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by nia93me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are growing up and want to learn how to have people who respect you in your life. You need to have conversation wih this "friend". Let her know that you do not feel she is bringing positive things to the relationship you have now. This may shock her and "mess with her mind" as she obviously has no perception of the reaction other people have to her actions. Let her know that your friends treat you with respect and that that allows you to trust them. Tell her you no longer trust her because of her behaviors and that you need to move on into relationships that are healthy and positive, ones that support your good qualities and help you grow out of immature situations. Tell her she hasn't been a friend and that it is over. She'll have a lot to think about for a long time. And losing you as a friend is her loss.
2006-09-23 03:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you a friend of hers? If you are, why do you want to mess with her mind? You want to show her you are stronger than her, then dont stoop to her level. Do you really think that telling everyone her secrets will make you feel better? What would people think of you if you do that? My advice would be for you to leave her alone and go on with your life. Find better friends.
2006-09-23 03:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't revenge or try to show her that you're stronger than her--it only worsens things up.
to mess up with somebody else's mind is the most common female form of bullying. doing it only makes you just as bad as she is. also, it only proves her right that you are a *****. if you really aren't one when she's nice to you, you aren't one either when she dumps her crap on you
if she does what she did to you then she's not your friend. just stop hanging around her and look for other friends who make you feel good about yourself. don't let others dump crap on you--it only makes you smell like garbage. talk to new people at gym class or choir, or join an after school club somewhere to meet people who are more deserving of your friendship.
what your "friend" concerns, just don't let her be the subject of your conversations. a person is only as big as what makes her mad, so if you're gonna be the bigger person, leave her alone. it won't take long for other people to see that she's wrong and that you're right.
2006-09-23 03:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mizz G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U don't need to do anything really mean....just ignore he and eventually that will mess with her brain so much 1 day that she'll cry, she sound really mean then just don't waste ur time on her good-luck!
2006-09-23 03:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by elise(= 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't sound as if she is worth wasting any time on! why risk her being able to say you were a ***** to her by "messing with her mind" when if you just break away from her then you leave as the good guy!
2006-09-23 03:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmmmmm.....hope you are not a bully..looking for new tricks..you say you want to mess with her mind...Isn't that exactly as you have accused her of...and you also said, you have a way to KNOW all her secrets??!!!......sorry, no target practice here..
2006-09-23 03:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry hun, its karma.
what goes around comes around
she'll get hers one day
dont do anything to get her back, or you are just like her.
2006-09-23 03:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋