i broke up with my b/f last night for no reason i dont know what to do i love him and feel useless to him and that i cause all the problems
2006-09-23 02:59:14 · 17 answers · asked by Caylee's Mommy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Get back with him!!!! Pick up the phone right now and say "Josh, I love you and I always have, I made a stupid mistake in breaking up with you and I dont know what came over me, I love you and I want to be with YOU."(If you are crying it will sound more drematic, but you be the judge on THATpart) Then see what he says. If you say that then you will be fine. Trust me, boyfriends are fun and great to have. I want a boyfriend sooooo bad. But, finding one is certainly taking its sweet @$$ time. Ugh.... So any ways, back to you, You'll be fine. Trust your instincts, girls are not CLUELESS when it comes to guys. If he doesnt take you back on the phone, which he most likely will, then go to school and show a little skin, flirt with some of the guys and show him what he is missing.....Every thing that happens, happens for a reason, but only YOU can choose how it ends up. You take a step foreward and choose before he makes it for you and you loose him. Good luck to you!!!
2006-09-23 03:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one...YOU did not cause all the problems, most of the time it takes two. Although one person may be more commited to the other and if thats the case then there's really nothing one can do. To me the number one reason for break ups/divorces isn't sex, money or location, but it's communication. Communication isn't just saying Hi or asking how the weather is, even though that is communication it needs to go a step farther to how one feels about things on an honest level...and that is very hard to do when talking about private things in our life. BUT under no circumstances do not think that it's all YOUR fault!!!
2006-09-23 10:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people don't usually break up with someone for no reason. Did he do something that provoked it? or are you having personal issues that made you do it? perhaps you should talk to someone, like a counselor at your school, or a minister, or a psychologist, and see if you can talk about any issues or concerns you're having, either with your boyfriend or with your family. If things are going on at home, especially, it can stress you out, and if you don't have very good self control, you can let that make you do crazy things.
on the other hand, you need to think about the possible results of the things you're doing before you do them. Take a minute and a deep breathe before you say anything major and/or bad. Then you won't end up hurting someone you didn't mean to hurt, all accidentally.
2006-09-23 10:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by crystal_sea24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason why you broke up with him. You feel neglected. Don't give in to your separation anxiety. That will pass. What you need to do is focus time on yourself. Go to a spa, get a massage... do whatever it is you do to feel good and spoil yourself. Just avoid any activity that will specifically remind you of the good things about your ex. Remember: once you've broken up with him and you're no longer angry at him the good memories will overpower the bad memories. Then you end up dwelling on the good when there must have been enough wrong for you to break up with him. I definitely do NOT recommend getting back with him because he will no longer respect you after you broke up with him. I know this from personal experience. Once a girl has broken up with me and wants me back I might take her back, but I have no respect and lose my feelings for her.
Good luck.
2006-09-23 12:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by SpikeBoy.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to bring him back to you. He is probably lonely just like you. You need to think of breaking up before you actually do it. Think of what would happen if you did broke up with him (which you already did). It causes you to be lonely. Remember that you shouldn't just do it, think before you do it. That is why you always cause problems. Try to think next time.
2006-09-23 12:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young and in years to come this relationship will take on a different meaning - when you are older you will know REAL love.. not just teenage hormone driven love...
DO NOT become one of those girls who only thinks they are important if they have a guy - this is not true - there are lots of pathetic girls who feel they must always be with a guy - low selfesteeme etc..
NEVER NEVER feel lonely because you dont have a boyfriend or you will make bad mistakes - trust me when you are older you will be glad for some time by yourself
2006-09-23 10:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you already broke up, just move on and think about the next step.
Love dies, but Life goes on.
2006-09-23 10:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Saffren 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u need to take some time to ur self and learn how to be alone so u will know how to treat some one that u care about
2006-09-23 10:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by faithfulforever06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how all women feel when they lose someone close to you.You will eventally get over it
2006-09-23 11:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are weird. Why would you dump someone for nothing.mAlso, you need to get some help. There are people out there who can help. :(
2006-09-23 14:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Halloween freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋