Hi I am a married guy, I got married last year, everything is going right since last month when I met my wife cousin and it was a love at first sight, I know she loves me too, but both of us don’t want to hurt anybody and we are hesitating to tell each other about this, every time when I look into her eye’s I saw lots of Q for me. I think we are hurting our feelings but we are in situation we cant do anything, but also I cannot see her like this looking at me . I don’t know what to do. Please suggest me a way out from this.
2006-09-23 02:42:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her that you cannot see her any longer. You made a commitment to your wife. You gave your word.
If you leave your woman every time you think that you "love" someone else, this will continue to happen. Put an end to it now.
It's not unusual to feel an attraction to someone else, but that doesn't mean that you let your emotions rule you. Letting your emotions dictate your actions will only ensure that you live a life of chaos.
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2006-09-23 02:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight? NO! You have lust and that's a whole other story! I think you need to remember what you VOWED just a year ago and apply it to your WIFE, not her cousin. I don't care how many Q's she's got for you; don't listen to any of them. Stay away from her and you won't have to see her eyes. Do you think this is the only time in the next many years you'll see someone you could be interested in....IF YOU WEREN'T MARRIED? Where did you tuck your morals and your love for your wife? You know how to cool your feelings for her cousin real fast? TELL YOUR WIFE you're uncomfortable around her cousin because of the way she looks at you; tell her you feel she's trying to come on to you and you don't want anything to mess up your relationship with your wife. I bet your wife will help her cousin get over you real fast! Don't be a fool. You could very easily lose the best thing you have if you don't get your hormones under control.
2006-09-23 09:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently you werent ready for marriage like you thought you were. did u ever think about how your wife would feel if u left her for her cousin? either way u go your gonna hurt ur wife but it seems to me that you need to stop thinking about the hurt. i think it could possibly hurt your wife less if you got a divorce or annullment than if you cheated. so no easy way out for you. unless you decide to stay married to your wife and leave her cousin alone forget your "love at first sight" feelings.
2006-09-23 09:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by PyroPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, what did you see in you wife when you first met her. was it her beauty? body? Or the overall picture? Only married a year and you already have an eye for someone else. Is this lust? Why did you get married?
2006-09-23 09:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. You obviously should have not gotten married to begin with and have no clue what it means. Don't got after the causin because you will hurt her too. Spend a lot of time figuring yourself out.
2006-09-23 09:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry... I just had a bit of that vomit taste in my mouth after reading this. I feel extremely sorry for your wife. Do everyone a favor -- tell your wife the truth about you so that she can get the hell out now. Then you can run off with whoever you want to, and she'll be free of your slimy ***.
2006-09-23 09:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be faith full to your wife, you owe her that, Just like she owes you. what would you do if it was the other way around? You wouldn't like it much because she wants to be with another man. So tell the CUZ to stay away. Once you got married you made a promise to her and GOD that you was going to be there for her in every way till death do you part. GOOD LUCK. Pray to God for guidance beleave me it work's.
2006-09-23 10:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by loubell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest if your head is this easily turned then things were not going as well as you may have kidded yourself they were my friend.you have two choices, end your marraige and just hope that maybe her cousin is what you want or make a go of it and take the vows you said on your wedding day seriously.
2006-09-23 09:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, Johnnie-boy! The best way out is the way through! B yourself! (let go off...)
" If you choose to agree, you're a tree!"
Ciao........John-John.
2006-09-23 09:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should grow up boy before you got married in first place.
Do whatever you want to do is your life.
2006-09-23 09:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋