after the husband told his wife he's unhappy about the pregnancy and not sure if he loves her anymore, she asked what he wanted to do about the relationship. Split before the baby comes, or after the baby is born. Why do you think he chose to wait until the baby is born?
2006-09-23 02:31:06 · 14 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It shows that he does have some caring left and the relatiionship is not lost. Get professional help. Quick.
2006-09-23 02:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He could be waiting for several reasons, first maybe because it he wants to be around during her pregnancy just because he feels like someone should be there. Secondly, it could be that he is afraid to be a dad and maybe in the back of his mind he thinks that after the baby is born that he may change the way he feels about everything. I know that this happens to a lot of guys. I know when I was 8 months pregnant my boyfriend decided that he wasn't really sure if he wanted this now or not and I was like, Oh no buddy you can't just take it back now. But in the end, he loved our daughter and he is a great father. Now if this man doesn't love this girl then no, he needs to leave regardless of the baby because it will only make matters worse in the long run. Good luck!
2006-09-23 09:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a good question, but a better one would be...why is there now going to be another child in the world without both parents living together, and when did he decide he was unhappy, before or after the pregnancy..???...dont get me wrong, I raised my two on my own for most of their lives...I just think the husband shouldnt have got her pregnant if he KNEW he was unhappy and it wasnt going to work....sorry..and I do hope she and baby will be ok....
2006-09-23 09:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys now days leave before the baby if they are unhappy. The saying don't stay with someone cause of the kids is the 1st thing to come out of their mouth.
2006-09-23 09:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
feels..obligated... curiosity.. still feels something for you... needs time to get another place..looks better to others.. it is a hard guess. but hey ... it is a start...it gives you time to work on saving your marriage if that is what you want. however what is he going to be doing while waiting. going out.... playing house with you.? what? be prepared.. because if he continues to play house and still leaves once baby is born.. you are really going to be hurt. i think you should take precautions and make plans.. for what if.? what if he decides to stay married.. what if he doesnt
2006-09-23 09:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's hoping that the baby will change things.
2006-09-23 11:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
spilt up before the baby come
2006-09-23 09:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Navita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know why he chose to wait, but I wouldn't. I'd be rid of the bugger right away.
2006-09-23 09:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you so concerned about it? He has his reasons and the only person he needs to explain them to is his pregnant wife. Not you, the impartial bystander.
2006-09-23 09:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Southern Lady 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess to help her through that part since he was a part of it.
2006-09-23 10:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋