my sister is 32 and have 2 kids,she is single,and without a boyfriend for 5 years now,that stresses her a lot she has become somebody else now,she does want to be in a relationship its just that she does not get anybody,shes a bit fat but beautiful and sucsessful
What happens now is she always find herself in the arms of ex-boyfriends out of desparation
She really needs somebody,she told me
2006-09-23 02:20:25 · 18 answers · asked by babes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off, tell her she doesn't need a man to be happy and she especially doesn't need her ex's as they are ex's for a reason. She needs to get involved in something she enjoys and join a group (adult dance class, golf lessons, local theater group, volunteering at Habitat for Humanity as there will be construction workers there, etc.) and then she will meet someone with the same interests as her that she can first become friends with and then hopefully move into a relationship.
2006-09-23 02:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has she ever seen the movie "Forrest Gump"? Remember, PRETTY IS AS PRETTY DOES.She needs to stop totally stressing on her weight and start concentrating on the positive features about herself...she's a great mom; she's a good cook; she is a great sister; she makes all her kid's summer clothes' she is a great PTA/classroom Volunteer mom; she has a wonderful smile;a sparkling personality; a wonderful job; a faithful old dog.............you get my drift.
If her weight is stressing her...tell her to take the kids out every night and walk. Show the kids the sites they probably never noticed before....a butterfly on a flower,an eagle perched on a telephone pole, a squirrel scampering across the grass....if they are watching for other things...before you know it...they will have walked quite aways...then turn around and walk back. Or even if it is just a short walk...do it consistently and soon it will become farther and farther, and soon, those "fat" clothes will be too big for her (YEA!!!!!!!). Desperation with ex's can unfortunately cause "accidents" and then she will be 32 and raising 3 kids!
There are plenty nice,good men out there....but she doesn't "really need somebody"...she has her kids and herself and obviously a very concerned sister.....spend some time with her if you are concerned and help her see that she can have a fulfilled life on her own. When the right relationship is time....it will find her!!!!
2006-09-23 05:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stay away from those xxx. Try getting out more I am a little fat but I get out more now ,and have fond men really like a their e is some for everyone do not give up .
2006-09-23 02:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by mawma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does she need somebody? she needs to stop stressin and enjoy the life she has with her children.they need to be the most important people in her life..men come and go children are for life! im sure its not doing the kids any good to see their mother so unhappy. her children need thier mother not another subsitute father every so many months..she needs to get on with her life and when she least expects it she will probably find a man
2006-09-23 02:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by megs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not her weight, it is her self esteem. I am a pleasantly plump female myself. I have NEVER had any problems with relationships....not sex....relationships. I have had steady 2 - 3 year relationships all of my life!!!! She needs to work on her self esteem by seeing herself as beautiful, buying new clothes, changing who she hangs out with, getting her hair done. Whether skinny or pleasantly plump, no one wants or respects someone who doesn't feel good about themself.
2006-09-23 02:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 06:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this with my sister. Heavy women really don't get men except out of desperation. I told my sister to just lose 20 pounds, and men would look at her differently. She did, and now she is happily married again.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-23 02:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs to meet men in a better foru.Try maybe parents without partners.
2006-09-23 02:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get out more and meet someone nice, instead of going back to her exs.
2006-09-23 04:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister that if she keeps doing things the same old way she will keep getting the same results.
2006-09-23 02:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋