Okay so a little while back I went for a little nap (like 40 mins maximum) and would up completely freaked…it wasn’t like a bad dream I hardly have thoses….but it just felt really real…like I was there choosing things for myself….
Okay so here it goes…my dream starts from where I’m sleeping I wake up from my bed and start looking out of my window…the light blinds me and starts taking me with it…I see my mother cooking smiling telling me she loves me…I see my family…my friends waving at me…and then suddenly I feel really sad like I’m leaving them and something pulling me away…and I know I’m sleeping in my dream and I wanna wake up cause I feel like I;m almost in tears by then…but I cant….and then finally I’m up….how crazy was that??? Any idea what it means …
2006-09-23 02:20:21 · 26 answers · asked by Fia 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
THANKS everyone for the answers it all really making me think :)
2006-09-23 02:33:30 · update #1
Well the most literal meaning I can think of, is you died, and everyone was either okay with it, or letting you know its okay to let go. And you feel sad because you dont actually want to leave, but your being forced to.
But dreams are usually symobolic and just a bunch of random things put together. I dont know you personally, so I cant put things that happened in your life, or thoughts that you have, and translate them into dream world. It may not actually be as literal as death, maybe you moved far away from people, or your thinking about it, and everyone understands. Or, maybe someone died that you knew, and you subconsiously were thinking about when you die, and your dream reflected that.
2006-09-23 02:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mashu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there.
In psychology the most prevalent theories regarding dreams and intepretations are those by freud. Dreams he says are a reflection of inner desires which cannot be surfaced. Everyone had something called id which is an inner desire, an imnnate drive to satisfy cravings like sex. It acts without any consideration of consequence. Then there is the superego which is the storage of your values that are taught as to the proper way to behave in your society and situations. The ego is what maintains a balance between the 2. It uses a number of defense mechanisms to do that. One that i think you might be familiar with is repression. when you have a naugthy thought or desire you would hold it back by focusing on something else. Now the effect of that is only to temporary store it back. It still desires to resurface and dreams are one way this resurfaces.
Though I have not been thought the art of dream intepretation I can try. Your dream might be a relfection of some thing in your childhood had you have repressed in your subconscious mind. Maybe there was a time in your childhood that you had been left alone by yourself by your parents and that caused you distress which yo repressed and it is now surfacing.
cheers
2006-09-23 03:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the dream reoccurs again when you sleep then you know that it is trying to tell you something - whether it is change i don't know but i had a couple of reoccuring dreams so i got a dreams dictionary and looked up many different elements some contradicting but overall coinciding with each other so get hold of one they are only about £5.
I hope this helps x 1 x - Let me know how u get on, take care x 1 x
2006-09-23 02:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way I interpret you dream is that you love your family very much but you may have to be separated from them for awhile and that's a decision you will likely have to make in the future. You could be having an opportunity to go on an extended trip or you may be re-locating to another city or region. While this may not be apparent yet, your sub-concience is aware of this already and trying to better prepare you mentally now so you will be ready when the time comes.
2006-09-23 02:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by nitemedic9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're somehow worried that everything is going to fall apart? Dreams are often our minds thinking about alternative paths that could be taken in real life. If the path you see in your dream terrifies you, then you're going to do everything possible in the day to prevent those events happening. You see your mother cooking and your friends and family members. It is a comforting thing. But if something were to happen - something terrible - it would be devastating to you. I don't know your family circumstances but in your waking life, you must put your family and friends first. They are the important ones. Do not attempt to alienate them in any way. Do everything you can do to prevent your dream from becoming reality/from coming true.
You have the power to make things happen. Make sure you make the right choices and make the right things happen.
2006-09-23 03:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Fever,
some awesome answers here.
I believe we have dreams for most of
their reasons and more.
This one sounds like your subconscious
was finding a peaceful place for you. Which
in itself, says something about your current
life. All I can say, is that I hope you can find
that special someone to help you create a
family circle for your adult life, like the one
in your dreams of childhood. It can happen!
Second, I think you became sad towards the
end, because you knew it was only a dream,
and that you had to return to consciousness.
You rushed it, but since your mind is SO much faster
than your body, it took your body a while
to respond to the request to wake. Dont panic
when that happens. It's quite normal. If you find
yourself in that situation again, in a dream that
seems dangerous, remember, you are in control.
Take control of the dream, and wait it out until
your body wakes. (Yep, I've been there a few
times and still working on it).
All the best, and blessings to you and your family
circles, past, present, and FUTURE.
-R-
2006-09-23 03:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by ~ROBIN~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mother
Approval or disapproval. From what do you need to feel nourish and protected? Family Kin. Gr Bed Retreat from activity. Rest. oup. Prosperous times ahead Window Opening. Opportunity. Feelings of being watched.Need for privacy. Light Illumination. Vision. Ready to accept reality
Sounds to me like there is something in your life you feel your family will not except about you and you have come the the conclustion that you need to tell them anyway .
2006-09-23 02:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Amy G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are unsure of a decision you need to make. A move. New job. Marriage/divorce.Your family and friends' input is important to you, but ultimately, you realize you must decide what the result will be. Another possibility is, that there is something you've learned about yourself, that you kinda like, but that may not be acceptable or understood by your family and friends.
2006-09-23 10:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's spooky ...it seems as though your passing away to heaven.
I used to have a reoccurring dream when I was a kid that it was very foggy and I could see nothing but white for about 15 feet and out of the fog big tires like tractor tires would roll toward me and I would have to dodge them...and they would come from everywhere.
I have never been to a monster truck show since.
2006-09-23 02:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel as though your childhood is slipping away from you. You also feel as though you are losing someone very important to you. Like your mother? Perhaps there is an illness in your family that worries you. Or maybe you feel as though you are becoming more distant with your family. Or even your friends. For more detail contact me via email or 360 pg. I am more than happy to help.
2006-09-23 03:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋