I met her when she was still dating him but because he is married with kids and have no plans of leaving her family for her. She claims not luv him & when ever she finished speaking with him, she will tell me that he is psycho & does not want to leave her alone. I gave her a new sim card but she refused to change her phone number. I dont know what to do so I need your help.
2006-09-23 01:53:18 · 29 answers · asked by BiggySnr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She can still love you and talk with her ex without ripping you off! even if she changed sim card she could still talk with him, try trusting her.
2006-09-23 02:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its possible your girl loves you even though she still talks to her ex. You want her to love you and not have contact with him by the sounds of it.
Seems as though you dont 100% trust her. Maybe shes tellng you the truth and the ex is a psycho who wont leave her alone.
Change her phone number ?, I can see why she doesnt want to, 1) its a nuisance, 2) its her being submissive to your wishes against her own.
Why dont you back off the subject a bit ?, worst that can happen from your point of view is : you keep on asking her to avoid her ex, she gets annoyed by your jealousy and leaves you. You've lost your girl because, ultimately, you didnt trust her. Not good.
Tell her how you feel, if she knows your unhappy and she continues mixing with her ex, well, shes not the one for you as she isnt sensitive to your feelings.
2006-09-23 02:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by ukmagilla1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is not "your girl" she belongs to herself. You mention she is seeing her "ex" who is married. This should speak volumes as to the character of each of them. He is married with children and a wife who depend on him. She is seeing a lying cheat. Both of these people have very little morality and higher sense of value's.
Don't you see that if you associate with people of this mentality you will only bring disfortune to yourself?
The attraction between them is physical and "she" can't get enough. Get rid of her and move on mate. There are plenty more and start thinking on a higher level of knowledge.
Cultivate your social "situational awareness" by respecting and blessing yourself and others.
Good Luck
2006-09-23 02:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is not going to stop talking to him for whatever reason, even though she claims he is a 'psycho'. It guess at this time it would be up to you to decide if this is the type of relationship you want to be in.
2006-09-23 01:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if this keeps going on that you should talk to her. because obviously she really doesn't understand that you are very uncomfortable in you seeing her talking about her ex when she should have been moved on by now. because that is why she is with you right. But yeah, if she doesn't want to talk then obviously she really doesn't want to be in a new relationship and hasn't moved on yet. Try communicating, if that doesn't work then i would say its not worth the wait because she hasn't moved on yet. but its your decision. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 02:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by Riah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem on hand. She does not want to end relationship with ex. What she claims may just be eyewash. actually she does not want to leave him alone.She is using you like extra wheel (fifth) wheel..You should have cleared the situation at the initial stage .I think you should leave her.
2006-09-23 02:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing going on. I think both of them are just creating a friendship. They were dating and for women it is hard to forget their first man. Just relax. You have nothing to worry about. Give her a month to a month and a half time. If she is the same then you have to ask her what is going on.Good Luck!
2006-09-23 01:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may love you but tell her to stop yalking to or ex because old relationship kinda click back again in know time and thats for real they gona start it by flattering each other then remenese about theit past then kick it to the other level no doubt
2006-09-23 01:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by lil j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She Does not LOVE YouBut She Likes You. Dont Worry Take it esay Man
2006-09-23 01:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do what in your heart. you should be treated eaqually. if you love her than talk to her. i mean love is blind, and has no conscionce. if its worth working out your differences or not. think back on the good and the bad, than just ask her whats going on. i wish you the best... but if she loved you, and showed you that you were loved, i dont think you would have to ask stangers if she loves you, or anything like that.
2006-09-23 01:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋