2006-09-23 01:22:04 · 21 answers · asked by lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, a pretty tough question, lol.....i think there's nothin' wrong staring at sexy women, who doesn't,lol......as long as u love your wife, there's no problem maintaining the relationship unless your wife doesn't feel easy about it.....so, u gotta sacrifice a little.....when u look at them, just turn your eyes away........it won't be so hard....lol
2006-09-23 01:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Taking notice of a sexy woman is man's nature. You are uncomfortable about your appreciation for beauty because society dictates that once you are in a relaionship you should now become blind, and you are not blind. Being married means you bring all aspects of your personality to the relationship. Appreciate the beauty there is to behold....(you don't feel guilty for thinking the neighbor has a great car).....and then transfer that appreciation to the woman in your life, who is so much more than just a vision of loveliness. She is the action that puts your love in play. I think that she will have a very good sex life as long as you have such a healthy appreciation for the members of her sex. Think: I saw a sexy woman today and she reminded me of you, my wife.
2006-09-23 01:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
removing the eyes may do the trick. I honestly do not see anything wrong with looking. I look at sexy gals and don't even try to hide the fact. I bet she looks just as much as you do. It is what you do about it that can be the problem. In this house I was told that when I stop looking I may as well die.
2006-09-23 01:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can't be helped but the best thing to do is to not try and engage the woman because regardless of what you are going to look because even when women are married and relationships look and at sexy men and find they are just you have to make the decision not to do anything that will jeopardize the relationship tell your wife that you love and that you looking can't be helped because you are sure she looks but and thinks that guy is sexy, and let her know but you are not going to cheat because it reminds you how special you are because you are just as beautiful as the women you notice and you will never do anything to mess the marriage up
2006-09-23 01:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is good at least u care to ask how to overcome that, i can only say it does take a lot of discipline and sheer determination to do that. if u fail, keep trying and remember the only woman u will only care about will be your wife. sexy women is sensational but it will lead u to a miserable end. take hint and make a fast u turn. of all, remember how many times u heard wives let go their husband because they fail them? so, don't let it happent to u. best wishes.
2006-09-23 01:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it would be very hard to avoid it,and it would make you feel frustrated...you would feel controlled by your wife,and finally you won`t stand this anymore... It is humans nature to look at other people ,like men look at sexy women,the same do women to sexy guys...not so obvios,but we do it aswell...
to look is ok,and making apetite,but you eat at home.
you musn`t feel guilty cause you are looking to other women besides your wife,if you know and you say it,you love her,it musn`t disturb you...you didn`t cheat her...you just looked.and I think your wife should understand this.
If you say it is a problem,it probably is for your wife,this way you could make her feel insecure,and jealous,try not to do it obvios when she is around...this is all you have to do,and when you are alone,you can stare as much as you want at other women.
2006-09-23 01:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cut your eyes out!
Remind yourself why you love your wife. You have everything you need. Even better, try seeing what the other women really look like. No one is perfect. Try seeing their flaws instead. And then tell yourself haha I got myself something better.
Or you just look away and not think of it anymore, that's easy.
2006-09-23 01:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you have a problem its normal for men and women to think someone is sexy I think as long as your not doing it in front of her and not acting on it then its ok.
2006-09-23 01:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Julia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if now you are at the other side of the table? Can you accept your wife looking at man?
2006-09-23 01:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by vosy2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Suggest her to receive you daily after a shower and allow you to explore every night , also suggest her to cook good food and help you to have all the three meals every day .
2006-09-23 01:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋