Actually, I want her to try new styles and positions and have it more often but it seems that i am not being able to satisfy her fully. What can I do to hold my erection for a few more minutes?
2006-09-23 00:13:16 · 18 answers · asked by dingdong301070 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
watch sex movies with her
2006-09-23 00:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Based on your statements, here are the possible solutions for your problem before you cave in and have an affiar: 1) It could be hormonal imbalances, and can be fixed by a physician. Take her to a good gynocologist. 2) It could be any medicines side effects, if she is taking any other medicine. Talk to your doctor. 3) Sex counellors can help you, seek their advice. 4) Maybe she is not sexually satisfied with you. Talk to her. An honest and good communication is the key of a successful relationship. Tell her everything, every feelings and ask her what is her main cause of problem. Only if she tells you what is the problem, you can then solve the problem. Be open, ask her what should you do to fulfill your sexual desire, if she is not interested to have sex. Maybe she has an answer for you. Just ask her. Have an honest communication. 5) If nothing works, tell her frankly you want to go in your separate way, so that both of you guys can be happier than you having an affiar. Be honest, you don't have to cheat on her. Good luck!
2016-03-18 00:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! The title of your question is very misleading. You are having premature ejaculation. That is your problem. Try to satisfy your wife first by giving her an orgasm prior to your ejaculation. Trying to get her interested in other positions before satisfying her sexually is the silliest idea I've heard. Your wife appears to have no problem at all, except that she has a husband who has grand ideas without fulfilling the basic necessity of satisfying her. Consult sex manuals for help, especially the ones by Masters and Johnson. Go slow or stop altogether when you are about to come too early. Learn breath control techniques through Yogasanas. These are often very helpful. Help her reach an orgasm by other methods, like inserting your finger in her vagina, if you fail to control early ejaculation at any cost. Try other techniques/positions if you are convinced that those will help you to last longer. And most certainly, engage in a long foreplay before intercourse. That will bring down her time to reach orgasm considerably.
2006-09-24 03:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the real question here? Make your wife more interested in sex or keep an erection longer.
I think the answer to both of these questions is FOREPLAY. If you want your wife interested in sex - make it interesting for HER!!
2006-09-23 00:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Drummer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude where have you been It starts way before you get in the bedroom. Don't ask her for hints she has enough stress do a tiny bit of reading without her knowledge and use what you learn. Watch it will change
2006-09-23 00:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beat off 30 min before you get in bed with her and when it comes up again it will last longer and harder than before. You might want to increase your oral foreplay on her and that should help her. Good luck.
2006-09-23 03:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know,
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-"So nine months later a blessed little pop-up appeared that read, 'You've Got Male!"
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I hope you will take this answer as a best answer
2006-09-23 00:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cadpigfriend 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she doesn't want to do any new positions you have to respect that. And you could learn about yourself better, how you can hold yourself longer. Or wear 2 condoms to feel less :o)
2006-09-23 00:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See a sex therapist.
2006-09-23 00:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Medication.
2006-09-23 00:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋