My wife is addicted to massage and cant sleep properly until she gets a full body massage. I started giving her massages early in our married life as i found it very erotic. Now 1 year later she cant sleep without a good massage. Can a massage be addictive? How do i help her to get out of it
2006-09-22 23:26:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Alternative Medicine
I am totally on your wifes side! They are addictive and you should just keep doin it! :-)
2006-09-22 23:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you find something relaxing to do together before bed it would help relax her enough to go to sleep without the massage. Maybe meditation, or a bath with scented candles. It is easy to become dependent on something you are used to being there. Don't cut her off from the massages, but break up the pattern gradually. If you can get her to relax before you get to bed, then maybe the massages can stop being an essential nightly ritual to something fun to do occasionally, again.
2006-09-23 06:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Desire is not Bad. When it turns to Greed is when it starts hurting.
I'm sure if you were not good with it, your wife might have 'bought' the services. Spending money everyday would have been a deterrent by now. Unless you guys are related to Bill gates or someone as rich as him.
Getting a massage is not bad. But if you're getting tired of it, 'doing it everyday', then I guess tell her the truth. She'll understand. Try to reduce frequency and try to make it mutual. It should work.
2006-09-22 23:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by zulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seems like it can get addictive..but here's what you can do...Make her listen to some hard rock music while lying in bed..she'll probably fall asleep after a while without giving massage much of a thought..if she asks for a massage while listening to the songs, then refuse and let her get used to it.
2006-09-22 23:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Darth Nazgul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?
2006-09-22 23:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooohhh yes, I love it too.
2006-09-22 23:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any thing can be additive if its abused.....
2006-09-23 00:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kerilyn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋