2006-09-22 23:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by L.R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There could be several reasons for this. I suggest trying stuff in the morning men often find it hard to gain an erection when exhausted and if they do they often can't muster enough energy to orgasm. One could sadly be lack of attraction, men often fall for women just cause they feel that this is the only one they can have hopefully not in this situation though. He might have problems with that part of his body he's scared to tell you about. Stress from work, family, and a number of reasons can lead to low sex drive. Men often lose desire when depressed. Here's another possibility that I don't like mentioning but it is possible, he might be cheating men often have one women there to care for them emotionally and another physically like I said before I hope not. If you only ask for se once a month this could be disheartening for him and he may think you don't want him. I suggest trying to maybe become a little more dominant by throwing him down and saying in a very sexy tone I want you know and I won't wait. Tell him this is somthing that is really bugging you, comunication makes for good relationships, openess and honesty between lovers is important. Good luck.
2006-09-22 23:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Redhead with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men can actually be too tired, OF YOU. You can't nag a man and expect him to want to make love to you. It works the same for the woman, if the man is not treating her the way he should to make her attracted to him, or she have respect for him for the way he treats her. If you really want him to give you sex, give him a little nudge in the middle of the night, or in the morning when he is rested, if all is well at home, then it will be well under the covers. If you are spatting, then you have to clear that up, and then it will all come together. When people have a chip on their shoulder and do not trust you, nor appreciate the way they are being treated, it is a turn off, and don't expect anything down the road, but a divorce eventually. You can just go so long, and the body craves attention, and love. If you are young, try to fix it, or move on. I hear about kids all the time, but what a life, just for the kids. It is really a shame.
2006-09-22 23:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do carry a lot of weight on their shoulders, and depending on what kind of work he does, and what the stress level he is under, he very well could be tired. You said that is is every one month, you mean once a month, or what, what age is he, has he had a physical check up, older men do develop a sexual slow down, and how are you making love, have you tried being the aggressor, there are too many variables here, just don't pressure the man, this is a real Turn Off for men, and once you damage the ego, you damage the Libido. Be patient, Love your man, and show some understanding.
2006-09-23 00:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that this man isn't gay, he could actually be too tired. He could have a low sex drive, and not to hurt your feelings, but his desire may not be for you. Give it a bit more time and see what happens and if you two are not compatible then you should consider moving on.
2006-09-22 23:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ummm let me help you see the light. No guy gets that tired at work . So A> he's not always at work when you think he is and hes getting it somewhere else. or B: hes gay. either way time to move on . good luck. In the mean time maybe i can help you scratch that itch
2006-09-22 23:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him relax make a gud tea of coffe b4 going to bed then massage his head n apply some oil to relax him (wear some thing very sexy with a long neck n bend again n again to make the bed then give him a gud nite kiss n lie down.....it will work
gud luck...
2006-09-22 23:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by imsimplygr8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex and love are two different things, to love do not want to say to make love. Think rather of its love and all will go well for you.
2006-09-22 23:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Flavier 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be because of his tiredness, but if he is continuing this for a long time, may be with some other reasons. Better to take him to a counsellor then.
2006-09-22 23:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Believe me.... not ! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want Sex, than make him relax... give him a good massage and a nice rub where it matters most for all man..ya his penis. I think this will for sure work.
2006-09-22 23:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while he is a sleep give him head trust me it works
2006-09-22 23:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋