Foe example your wife is willing and wants to make love to you and please you in anyway.But you just dont feel like it!And you always have the excuse of work and that your over weight.
2006-09-22 22:50:57 · 18 answers · asked by L.R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
pure stupidity I was married to a women for 16 yrs. who could not be faithful and she finally realized that i only
wanted her to be happy and now she feels bad and want me back but it is to late no one deserves to be cheated on.
2006-09-22 23:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by oparty2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife's also cheat if given that chance. We humans are also animals and we have animal instinct. If this instinct comes out in either a male or female than the sense from mind is lost.
Cheating other person due to personal problems or disinterest is v common tghese days and yes both men and woman cheat.
Trust should work both ways so as to have a respectable and mutualll physical relationship out of which satisfaction can come.
2006-09-22 23:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Samer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is something i love to discuss here are some reasons a man may go out and cheat
1) flabber mouth the women just never shuts up and when you argue with her you better quit because it never gets anywhere and they never shut up and if you stick up for what you believe in they hold sex over your head by holding out
2) women cheat these days almost as much as men
3) never seems to show companionship anymore only wants this done or that done
4) lazy women often get lazy after the first child using excuses making men do all or alot of the work right after they got off of work while the mother does not work
5) controllive
6) verbaly abusive
7) again she never shuts the f up
2006-09-22 23:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it's not always men who cheat. Women cheat a lot too. Secondly, if they are cheating it means something is wrong in the relationship. He may still love his wife, probably just not like he used to. Excuses are just that, excuses. It all boils down to he's not really "in love" with her anymore. Or, in some cases, there are people out there who just have a problem with fidelity.
2006-09-22 22:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by THP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat because most women LET them. It is the nature of the beast. The name calling and ridicule is their way of justifying what they and doing and they know they are wrong. If a man REALLY loves a woman and respects her and appreciates her efforts to please him he wouldn't cheat. There is something missing in your marriage and he's hiding it with on the side sex. It's no sense in beating a dead horse. He won't stop cheating because you take him back when he does and try harder to keep him. You are hurting yourself and you need to ask yourself if it's worth how you are living right now. Your self esteem must be really low for you to accept this kind of treatment. Take charge of who you are! Don't let this man run you into the ground. It's okay to be in love but it's no good if it's one sided!
2006-09-22 23:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my ex husband cheated on me because
I paid to much attention to the kids...and he wasnt interested in them. Still isnt. Plus, the people he was influenced by at work and spent more time there than at home. There's always a reason. His was just a lack of committment to his family. He didnt want it and didnt try. He made a mistake and hope that he will try to make his next relationship work.
2006-09-22 22:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was Lady Di fat? How about Jackie Onassis?...it has nothing to do with your looks. When a guy cheats...it's because he has a problem- not you...otherwise he would have left you first. It's a power thing...having a secret and having the control over exposing it or not is very exciting....it must give them like an adrenaline rush......once exposed all of a sudden it was nothing....unless his name is Prince Charles. (the worst cheater of all time)
2006-09-22 22:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men cheat. They don't have it "all" at home. They don' t have a variety of tang at home do they? That's what we need, variety. You'll have to define "please you in anyway" as well. Some women think spreading is all it takes. There is a lot of variety that can be received at home but you should spend some time reading penthouse letters or something to educate yourself in the subject. Also, make sure you are feeding his ego as well.
2006-09-22 22:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because you dont even wanna give yr wife a chance, your so caught up in yr own affairs and games with other women, yr afraid that if you give yr wife a chance you might end up beign faithful to her and leavign all those sinful pleasures behind
2006-09-22 22:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about the wife or the marriage. It usually about how it make the man feel about himself and his life or the thrill oft not getting caught,any way you look at it, his feeling come before all else.
2006-09-22 23:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by dettie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋