I was involve with my boss sometime(last 6 months). But he is serious with her ex girlfriend,who is not talking with him but loves him more than her life.Now we are not in relationship becuz he want's to be faithful for her. But i love him too much. Sometimes i feel that i can't live without him.He said ,"u r still my very gud friend" But freindship is not possible after love. He was serious with her for 6 yrs. She is everything for her.He feel sorry for all which he done. Nd said ," That was my realisation period in which u indulged unfortunately" But What should i do? In his depression i had helped him now who 'll help me. For me it's a very big thing. I belongs to a cultured family. I have given him everything. But still I m virgin. Becuz my culture have stopped me from doing so.But I cannot forget him. Had he done timepass with me? Had i become a victim of his depression? He come out from this situation but left me there. Even Now he is not so caring as usual Please suggest me!
2006-09-22 22:42:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's difficult to get over someone you love and care about even never having sex with them.
That's not unusual! You had hopes and dreams about him and they are still in your heart and mind. He loved you but he was afraid to move forward with you and chose someone more familiar to him. That's not unusual! Give yourself some time and space to recover your heart. Surround yourself with the people that make you feel good and know that life isnt perfect. A broken heart is one of the toughest things to overcome, but not impossible. Smile as much as you can outside and it'll begin to feel better inside. :) I know, Im going thru a heartache myself.
2006-09-22 22:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this your first love? Sometimes we never get over those people that we have shared our lives with in an intimate way. If you still have the same job, you might have to find other employment. He probably knows how you still feel about him and that is why he is being so distant. Also this is one of the reasons that office romances are not a good idea. Move on and find you a boyfriend that will love and respect you. You don't want a guy like this one.
2006-09-23 05:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of this situation,fast,its not doing you any good.look for a new job,get some counseling,and move on.He is using you,you must try to put this behind you and come out of this the victor,not the victim.We all make mistakes sometimes in life and some people capitalise on others mistakes,your boss being one of them.He has left you in a depressive state-but only YOU can get out of it.Don't despair,there is help out there for you,but you have to make the first move,it will be a difficult and long journey,but can be done:-)BEST OF.....
2006-09-23 06:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he dumped you because you can't spell.
First of all shame on you for getting involved with some one that already has some one. Virgin or not, a sin is what it is. Maybe you are dealing with the repercussions of what it feels like to be a participant in a cheating relationship.
You'll get over it if you can forgive yourself for being a cheater.
2006-09-23 05:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by meowzer mix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you were taken for a ride , either to make the other girl jealous or to spent extra time that your boss has . it happens very often in a work atmosphere , specially the mid corporate one.stay away from your boss a bit and stay with your work , try and make all your activities as good as possible and try to find friends of the same gender.
2006-09-23 05:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by sourajit n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out and take care of yourself....move....fight the blues...chances are he isn't losing a thought on you. You deserve someone so much better than that loser. Thank God you didn't give it up for him....move on.....don't become like him! Wake up! It was just a terrible dream.
2006-09-23 06:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart,
you are far too precious and caring and not to forget loving ,something that is missing in today's world you deserve someone who will reciprocate love to you.
besides lfe is of making choices dear
if u want to be happy pls move on as god has major gr8 plans in store for you and there will be a guy who will respect you for who you are.otherwise u can waste your precious time and life for the guy who does'nt love you.
just remeber 1 thing you are in control of your emotions, your emotions are not in ctrl of you.the secret lies in your hands dear
so choose......
2006-09-23 05:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by capricorngirl_jupiter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
i know that it is easier said than done, but perhaps go and look for a new job, maybe go and see a doctor to help you pick yourself up and go to your family for support. it is important to ask for help when you need it and there is nothing wrong with taking antidepressents if you are genuenly depressed.
good luck
2006-09-23 05:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by mozzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was helped the way you helped him. The ex did return but I was faithful to who took care me in my bad times! He was nasty to you!
2006-09-23 06:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away change jobs you can,t carry on like that you will self district he is not worth it you were just used to feed his ego
2006-09-23 05:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by martin r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋