2006-09-22 21:52:32 · 13 answers · asked by martini on the rocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no hes been with her for like 4 years now and i never hold info from my friends
2006-09-22 22:10:41 · update #1
Well I think he just need some time alone like what everybody says. Its so hard to deal with a break-up and I really feel for your bestfriend because I too experienced breaking up with a gf for almost four years. Its a very hard experience and you feel like the world is crashing up on you and you sort of blame the people around you for no reason at all. I hate to say this but love sucks when you experience a break-up!!!!
2006-09-22 22:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably just really upset. If it was a longer relationship, which ive been through that it can be very hard and i know i didnt want to speak to anyone i just wanted time to myself and get my head back on. He might also think the break up will get brought up a lot and isnt ready to discuss this with anyone so he might be avoiding the fact. Dont worry he'll make it through this and things will get back to normal. You arent losing a friend if anything just give him some time! Good luck hun!
2006-09-23 04:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by jane b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was like that, it would be because I found out my friends were privy to information that I should have known but did not bother to tell me. Is this what happened? If not then it is very possible he just needs some time alone, or he is depressed. In any of these cases there is nothing you can do to help, he either needs to work through it alone, or find new friends or get professional help.
2006-09-23 05:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression. Continue to reach out to him and invite him to do stuff. Don't take it personal, if he doesn't.
The other thing is to just call everyday. I have a friend that lives 3 miles or so from me. I haven't seen him in 3 or 4 months but we talk almost everyday. Just call him to touch base. Talk about what you have going on. When you come across something funny call them and tell them about it. In a short period of time they will be calling you too. At least, that is my experience. People like to feel connected.
2006-09-23 05:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by quarterton2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him be that way. He has lost trust in everyone and wld prefer keeping quiet, but life still goes on.
At this point of time, he needs a good friend who wld be a good listener. Somebody who wld support and be with him. Give him his own space though.
Time they say heals the hurt. This wld be easier if he has a good friend with him.... So be there!!
2006-09-23 05:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with him...give him his space and time...that's an emotional thing to go through...check on him every so often though...don't make him feel like u don't care at all...and if he reaches out at all, be a true friend and be there with an open ear
2006-09-23 04:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tender Po1zn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, maybe he just wants some time alone. Maybe he's depressed and in trouble. Ask him. If he does not respond, you did your best. And you are not responsible for anything that happens after that. Really, you aren't.
2006-09-23 04:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having withdrawl symptoms. Take him to a strip joint. He'll get over it.
Honestly, he's depressed but you as a friend need to work him through it. He'll get over it as long as he does'nt feel alone.
Get him back on that horse!!
2006-09-23 04:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by meowzer mix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing's wrong. it's normal. just give him a time to be alone. time to mend a broken heart. just be by his side. make him feel that you are beside him if he needs you. A moral support will do but prayers can do a lot..
2006-09-23 04:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know that u'll be there when he is ready to talk. he just needed some time alone. it is just normal after a break, especially when it is something serious.
2006-09-23 05:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋