and if I am it good as well. My problem is how will I tell my parents as they already warned me they will kick me out of the house. Should I tell them straight away as soon as I know I am pregnant (if I am) or should I leave it for later that is when I start to show up?
2006-09-22 21:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It would be better to get it out in the open after you know for sure - get a pregnancy test. You won't start showing for about 4 months or more. If your parents do still kick you out, you need to start preparing NOW for a place to live for you and your baby. Good luck! The stress of not telling may affect you and your baby.
2006-09-22 21:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't know what to tell you about your parents saying they would throw you out but I will say this.
If my daughter came home and told me that she was pregnant I would first be a little up set that she did not protect herself. Second, ask about the father and if he is supportive or not. Third, I would make an appointment for her and help her through it. If she waited because she was afraid of what I might or might not say and do I would be hurt.
My first obligation is to her second my grandchild that isn't even born yet. The father is no concern of mine and better be prepared to pay up or get lost completely.
Tell your parents when you are positive you are pregnant and hopefully they don't throw you out.
Keep in mind that you are a precious being and no one has the right to just cast you aside because you didn't perform to their wishes. But just in case plan ahead. And it is ok if you need public assistance screw the jerk who told you it wasn't. That person probably uses it also.
2006-09-23 07:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anne M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are you?
One thing to know, tell them now...
this way if they do kick you out, it will give you enough time to collate your things and find a home...
Are you expecting they'll feel sorry for you with a full belly and won't do it at that time?
What happens when you can hardly move, and then they kick you out?
ANYWAY, I doubt they will, so just tell them now...
...if your parents are not supportive, then you are better of finding your way now when you don't have a bubba to look after.
...you can do it, so don't expect to bludge from your parents finances when the expecting father should be there for you.
you are a grown adult, act like one!
2006-09-23 05:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by mary_not_cathy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if i were you i would wait until you know for sure at least, then if you know they will kick you out if they know you are pregnant, i would be trying to find other places to live or seeking out all options just to be prepared for them kicking you out, but you wont be able to hide it from them for very long so just be open and honest with them they may suprise you and react differently than thay told you they would anyways good luck
2006-09-23 04:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should get a job, leave the house, and support your own mistake. Don't be a burden on taxpayers, or your parents.
2006-09-23 04:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by St♥rmy Skye 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i was 16 when i had my 1st child i didn't tell my mum till i was 5 months as i was so scared of what she would do but i wish i told her straight of as she was so supportive she was even there when i gave birth to both my children i couldn't of done it without her
2006-09-23 05:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You SHOULD get on Birth-control!!!!
2006-09-23 04:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋