My boyfriend has 8 different accounts that I know of on myspace...some which portray him as women. I know I know the answer to this....however, looking for some more enlightening advice I may have missed. Thanks for your reponses.
2006-09-22 21:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are all so awesome...honestly, I just miss HONESTY. I'm not that difficult really. Love you all for responding...whether I agree or disagree you're awesome. Just what I needed. Thanks!
2006-09-22 21:40:12 · update #1
Well, your boyfriend seems, erm... nice. lol, let him know that you're uncomfortable with this. Not only is he obsessed with MySpace to have atleast 8 accounts, he is portraying himself as a woman. It is questionnable. Ask him why can't he just have 1 account, ask him what he actually does on MySpace, because he must be doing something. If you get no answers, then you'll have to break up with him. I know it seems silly but he's driving a wedge between the 2 of you over a website. Oh, and don't forget to ask him if he's bisexual. JUST incase!
2006-09-22 21:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by susanradford18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 accounts is a bit extreme. the fact that he is trying to be someone else is also a worry.
Have you talked to him? Actually sat down and tell him that you are worried? Encourage him to spend more time away from the computer and with you in the real world. Perhaps then you might be able to talk to him properly and find out whats on his mind.
Failing that, you may have to give him an ultimatum.
2006-09-22 21:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by dreama_120987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kinda funny. I think this crazy hobby of his will pass. He could be doing much worse, I mean, not to belittle your concerns, but his obsession is irksome, but let him do his thing and he'll grow out of it. This isn't the Christian answer, but I would create a myspace (get creative like he has!) and become his "friend" and put comments blowin him up on all of his 8 pages. You can put pictures, comments, all sorts of things in there. Have you thought of that? I bet it would work.
2006-09-22 21:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to make him into something he's not? If he wants to spend his life in a world of make-believe, let him. You are free to pursue a real life with someone who has more of a grip on reality.
2006-09-22 21:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he needs something more creative to do with his time. maybe go to college or get another job or maybe he wears dresses and does things you don't know about when you aren't around
2006-09-22 21:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
8 accounts eh... sounds like someone has no life..
2006-09-22 21:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by stapler and coffee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him live in his fantasy world its not hurting any one he will grow up one day.
2006-09-22 21:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs two jobs - that will end that.
2006-09-22 22:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by s_w_i_n_g_t_r_a_d_e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a boyFriend ? Dump him
2006-09-22 21:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Believe me.... not ! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes Gay.
2006-09-22 21:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋