Why do i find it so hard to socialise and make friends whereas other ppl find it easy?

Answer 1

Maybe you are just shy around people you don't know well? I would suggest joining a group of people with interests similar to your own (for example, volunteering somewhere, taking a class, etc.). This will help bring you out of your shell and teach you to be more comfortable around people.

Answer 2

Your statement that others find it easy is a matter of perception.

What helps me in a social setting is that prior to entering, like on the drive, I make myself laugh as hard as I can for like a full minute. Sometimes people look at me all crazy, but it releases endorphins in my brain making me feel better and gets me smiling.

A smile on your face makes you approachable for others and I'm quick to put out my hand to shake hands. If I kind of know them or even if I don't I say hi and then my name

What I'm doing is reminding them of my name if they can't remember because sometimes people will be short to talk to you because they can't remember your name. 2ndly, it m,akes them remember you the next time they see you, even if that time they can't remember your name again.

The other thing I do when I'm really uncomfortable in a social setting is find out how I can help. My stand by, helpful thing is to take out the trash if a trash can becomes full at a party or group dinner. If I see someone already doing it, I tell them I'll take it out if they will put a new bag in.

To start a conversation, compliment the person on anything and go from there.

Answer 3

maybe your just too shy! rty to communicate with others, chatting is the best way to meet some new friends! it's the best way to start around honey! you'll meet a lot of people here and yu can choose the best!!!

Answer 4

ome out have fun dont worry about what people think let them come to you not the other way around

Answer 5

People are different learn to appreciate that then ul move on well