my ex-bf and i broke for almost a month now, but before that, we have broken up twice already and get back together always, we love each other, i know that but there are lots of things that coming between us so we decided to break up (again). the last time we had a chat, he asked me if i want to watch movie with him nad he even called me in our endearment names ... but i refused to. i told him i am happy now and have moved on, but it was lie... i told him to find his own happiness. now i heard he is dating or flirting with one japanese lady, and it hurts me so much... what should i do? should i tell him i love him still, or just go on and move on... please help,,,..
2006-09-22 21:18:48 · 11 answers · asked by kish-kish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on. You guys have gone through the break-up-then-make-up cycle too many times already. It is a waste of time to go round and round again.
2006-09-22 21:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at your relationship in the mirror. Ask yourself why you broke up the other times, why did you lie to him and tell him you were happy, are you still in love with him or do you hate the idea that he has moved on and you haven't? When you get the honest answers to these questions, if you still feel like you should tell him, then by all means do. Be completely honest with him, but be prepared that he may not feel the same way. If you do get back together, go see a relationship counselor together. They will be able to teach each of you a more constructive way to deal with your differences. Follow your heart and find your happiness.
2006-09-23 04:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think u should move on. All partings hurt for sometime tht does not mean u let life stand still. The fact tht u've broken up 2-3 times means tht there r a lot of issues between the 2 of u tht cannot be resolved, take this as a hint and carry on. Make new friends and party, but don't sit moping n crying. Life is short, enjoy it
2006-09-23 04:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!!!! Get away from that relationship. It's called CO-DEPENDENCE. Stay as far away from him as possible!!! He will make you sick, question your faith, and make you believe that you can't find someone better then him. RUN, RUN, RUN!!!! Stay away from him at all cost. Don't play that game. I'm sure there is someone waiting for you to be free of this monkey on your back so that he can make you happy. Believe me, the one that will be true to you is someone that you've already met and can't wait for you to get rid of that baggage you call a relationship.
If you don't do it now, it might be too late. He sxxx run don't walk away, RUN!!!!!! Happiness is waiting around the corner for you, it's up to you to turn your back on this low life and find what is probably looking you in the face. Don't EVER tell him that you still love him. That gives him power over you. Don't be weak. Take it ALL back and remember that women do have power.
Good luck.
2006-09-23 04:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by meowzer mix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See i must tell u the bitter truth
If u even live with a pet you fall in love with it and it is quite natural that you will miss it once gone.
As far as i can understand he dont take you seriously enough as he has moved on and u hv not. There are some dis similarities between u and him which caused these 3 times break up. wat i suggest u is move on in life, there are million of guys out there and i m sure u will find the right one some day soon.
2006-09-23 04:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you told him that you where happy and to move on for a reason.look into your self and think about why you both agreed to break up to begin with.somethings are better left alone.but the decision is yours just make sure your being true to your self and not jealous of the out come you have created
2006-09-23 04:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear of your dilemma, however life is only for moving forward, please don't look back - you tried it and it didn't work and how ever many time you went back I am sure the outcome would always be the same. Hold your head up high, wish him luck and start enjoying life again. Good luck and don't be sad.
2006-09-23 05:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed now lay in it.
In relationships... they are based off honesty and you were not honest with him. You basicly done this to yourself. You told him in so many words to move on and that's what he is doing. Maybe down the road a little you can rekindle the fire you once had.
2006-09-23 09:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go of the past,keep your love for each other on a different level.find your love in Jesus Christ and he promissed that he will fullfill all of your desires.It sounds like your b friend is not sure of his selfesteem.perhaps you both need to move on.thank of what life for you both would be like if you got married and still could not stay together.love yourselfs first but allow Jesus in to your heart.I will pray for you to find the true love that you so deserve.
2006-09-23 04:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by william k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did what you asked...to mind his business including a new friend.... On one side you have several differences and on the other side you love him still. Decide first-whether to patch up with him or just move ahead!!! Since he just obeted what you asked, he may do it again to patch up!!!
2006-09-23 04:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋