I REALLY HAVE NO INTREST IN HAVING SEX AT ALL BUT MY HUSBAND WANTS IT ALL THE TIME ! I AM 21 YEARS OLD WITH NO SEX DRIVE AND I HAVE 3 CHILDREN BUT I REALLY NEVER HAD A SEX DRIVE EVEN BEFORE THEY CAME ALONG! I KNOW WHAT YOUR THINKING YOUR THINKING I MUST OF HAD SOME KIND OF SEX DRIVE I HAVE 3 KIDS RIGHT. WELL NO THAT WOULD BE FALSE IT IS JUST EVERY TIME I DID HAVE SEX I GOT PREGNANT! THE ONLY TIME I LIKE SEX IS WHEN I AM DRUNK! I WANNA LIKE IT WHEN I AM NOT DRUNK PLEASE HELP ME GET MY SEX DRIVE BACK ANY POINTERS?
2006-09-22 21:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't know where it went, or why you don't have it? That's sad, I'm sorry. Does nothing and no one turn you on or get you hot? Not even when you are touched or touching certain spots? Prettying yourself up and putting on a sexy outfit or lingerie, spending some time in the mirror doesn't do anything? You can see a doctor, maybe your estrogen / testosterone (yes, women have a little) is out of whack, maybe you dread more children since each time you do it, one pops, you owe your husband, honey. It may be hard for you but it is harder for him. If you only like sex WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK then CLEARLY YOU HAVE A PSYCHOLOGICAL BLOCK. Go talk to a counsellor to figure out WHY. Please do this for your marriage, your husband and yourself and family. It hurts so bad to feel sexually rejected in a marriage. I have to congratulate you and send you lots of love, hugs and empathy for being woman enough to seek help and answers. May God make you as horny as your hubby. I'm totally serious. Best wishes hon.
2006-09-22 21:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, a difficult one.
Your right normally I would say: any wonder your drive is lacking...three kids.
You don't hate sex just don't want to do it all the time.
Seems like that should be okay.
But liking it only when your drunk is another matter entirely.
Can you speak to a professional, there may be an underlying reason for this?
On a lighter note I think it's a pity your husband's libido doesn't match yours.
Wish you the best.
2006-09-23 04:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the sex that you are having is not turning you on!
maybe you need to do alittle expermintation like with other females or try watching some porn to see whats turns you on or to get ideas from, also try having sex in an unfamiliar place to see if it creates any excitement
2006-09-23 04:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by knowitall4now 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a sex drive @ fingerthatthing.com
2006-09-23 04:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by gary_george48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have a physical in valence, just go to your doctor and tell him about it, now days they have pill kind of like Viagra but for women. He may be able to give you a prescription for them.
2006-09-23 04:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by rucrazy? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely it is a hormone inbalance and you need to talk to your doctor and let them see whats going on ,you are very young to have this problem something is not right and I bet it is hormones .good luck to yah .
2006-09-23 04:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to a deserted islan for a while maybe you need to talk with the MD
2006-09-23 04:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult a doctor
2006-09-23 04:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋