help out ! its a guy friend prob. should i go to his..........?

Question

my friend invited me for one of his fathers buisness party . i have been invited 4 the first time by a boy . but the prob. is that he has not asked much girls from my section n ther is only one girl whom i know . that one frnds's family is invited by that boy's mother as they r friends . i dont know that should i go / not . i am feeling very ochward to go there . what should i do ? if u think i shouldn't go then plz tell the excuse i should make to him in the school for not coming to the party

Answer 1

u better go... his ur fren... a boy...but if ur heart says no.. no lying tell him the truth that u dont feel comfortable with the invitations... lying may brokre his feelings badly...

Answer 2

If you enjoy being with this friend, and want to attend the party with him, then there is no reason for you not to go.
If this is your first date, then it is normal to feel nervous.
just go and enjoy the evening.
if you know the other girl that is attending the party, at least you will have someone there you know that you can talk to.

If you still feel too awkward to go, then tell him how you feel and tell him that it would not be a good idea to attend a party where you do not know many people and that you would feel uncomfortable being there.
You do not really need an excuse, the truth should be sufficient.

Answer 3

Declinig an invitation is quite ok if you do it sincerely.

Thank him but decline.

Always thought it a sign of a truly confident person; to be able to decline an invitation without giving a reason.

Answer 4

you could ask him politely if its ok if you bought along somebody.. If he really likes you he would probably say yes..

If he says no and you are not comforatble with the situation you should not go.

Good luck.