Last year I hung out with these three dudes everyday. One was my roommate, another my suitemate, and the last was a friend who lived in the dorm next door. Anyway we got along great...I don't think I was tagging along because we always had good conversation and good laughs. We always did things together, but over the summer I didn't really keep in touch since they live in different cities. Now it's my sophomore year of college, and my friends got a house without me. I still live on-campus, but they never call to hang out. Sometimes I call them, but nothing ever happens. I wouldn't say they're avoiding me, but it seems like I'm out of the picture for good. Has this ever happened to you? Right now I'm feelin insecure and negative. Maybe they were fake friends, maybe I was a burden...I don't know, but I don't really have any other friends. Most people are too frivolous for me. A month has gone by since I last saw them. Should I just forget about them?
2006-09-22 19:36:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People change. You can make new friends. It does ot mean you are a bad person, it just means a different chapter is starting in your life. You'll always find new friends and probably better ones.
2006-09-22 19:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, man yes definatly know what your going through, well they have technically forgotten about you and moved on with there lives, i know painful, but something what happens, now the way to solving this is ask yourself who am i and how can i not let this affect me, my best advice join like a club something, keep yourself busy and then maybe make new friends, because they never were really good friends if they left u like that, well best of luck
2006-09-23 02:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Corey132 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it sucks. the same thing has happened to me before. Just get new friends. I did and they are better than the ones before. Because i know they want me there and they want me to stick around. Trust me i'm picky about friends too. But just find people you can connect with. Maybe you like the same movie, music, class, or you have the same major. Just do your best and get yourself out there and make friends. It will feel uncomfortable and strange at first but once you get to know them its a blast. Hope this helps and good luck.
2006-09-23 02:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Southerngrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe since you didn't keep contact with them either over the summer maybe they were feeling the same way you are now. Besides you're in college and it's only your sophmore year. You'll have plenty more opportunities to meet people and make friends.
2006-09-23 02:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's sad. I don't think they did it on purpose at first. But now that you're out of the loop they're not making an effort to include you, since they all live together they probably don't even think about it. Yeah college can suck like that. I thin I liked High school more.
2006-09-23 02:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like u said during da summer u didnt keep n touch with dem so now u kno how it feels
2006-09-23 03:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey dont feel sad it happens wid everybody most of them come to us 4 their own pupose and then dump us. it happened wid me also . cal them up. meet them ask them fankly. them mey feel ashamed. if their behaviour still remains same then come on dont cry 4 them who dont care abouy u. there are lots of friends u wil find .
bye take care
2006-09-23 02:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lokk for them... talk to them and ask them all your questions... tell them how you feel... that is the best way to know the answers for all your questions, if you think it's your fault, then apologize.... sorry for that sad story 'bout you and your friends...
2006-09-23 03:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Rika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to them about it and know what their feeling about you, after talking to each other some thing might happen it is after that you decide what to do
2006-09-23 02:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by julawh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋