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You want people to think you are smart! The easiest way to do this is to specialize.
Steps
Choose a small area in which to become an expert.
Read books and magazines about this topic.
Find other people who like this area too, and spend time with these people. The conversation will inevitably lead to your favorite topic, and you will therefore learn even more about it.
When you are with the person you are trying to impress, steer the conversation over to your area of expertise every once in awhile. The more you know, the more impressive you are going to be.
Tips
Be sure to learn all the vocabulary and buzzwords associated with your topic. If you like cars, know what a V-8 engine is, for example.
A good way to find others interested in your topic is to join a club. If birdwatching is your thing, start going on those Saturday morning hikes you have read about in the paper.
You don't have to know a lot about everything to show that you are in fact quite intelligent. You just have to know a lot about any one small area. Not too many people can tell the difference between a Gypsy Moth and and a tent caterpillar, but if you CAN, people are going to notice!
2006-09-22 19:02:52
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answered by mallimalar_2000 7
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There is no universal formula, as what impresses 'one' may do just the opposite to 'another'.
Yes, being yourself is the best thing to do. Each person is endowed with some unique qualities. Believe in yourself, be your natural self and there will be many people impressed by you. It's true, it works !!!
Those who don't like your natural self and expect you behave in a particular way, just don't care about them.
If you have someone specific in mind whom you want to impress, then you need to know what is it that will impress him/her, his interests, likes, dislikes.
Adapting your personality to the demands of the surroundings, to the persons around you, to socail customs, etc. is required upto a point. But, dont' overdo. Beyond a point, it pays to be yourself.
2006-09-23 02:15:33
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answered by AKTion 2
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The best way to impress is t o stop thinking of impressing, you may impress now but one cant put the fake attitude all the time.
2006-09-23 02:38:09
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answered by Goodguy 4 2
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No matter what happens between you and your
man, he will always be affected by your first
encounters. He will always remember how you
seemed in the early days of your relationship,
and this "image" will stay in his mind for a
long, long time - because first impressions
matter tremendously.
The way you carry yourself affects how MEN
respond to YOU. Do you know how men see you?
Do you know your strengths and weaknesses?
1st is to "smile"
2nd is to "stand straight. Posture is everything"
3rd is to "Be relaxed"
4th is to "You must make eye contact with people"
5th is to "Use other people's names often"
6th is to "Always greet other people when you see them"
that is the best ways to be charming.
2006-09-23 02:14:54
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answered by Sexy_obssess 1
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Don't try to be something else. If you mess up while trying to be someone else, you'll look fake and very possibly stupid. Be yourself, smile, have fun.
2006-09-23 02:11:54
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answered by Rachel the Atheist 4
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just be yourself. or the sure way is try to know that person like habits , hobbies etc.,. it is not difficult once you know that persons hobbies
2006-09-23 02:19:16
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answered by dl1967 1
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Lick your forehead.
2006-09-23 02:25:55
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answered by Papa 7
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by smiling gently often
2006-09-26 03:57:03
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answered by neo 1
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be a good listener...talk fun...be urself and look good!
2006-09-23 02:00:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Be yourself! You are you!
2006-09-23 01:57:04
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answered by Anonymous
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